Valentine's Day is one of the most romantic times of the year. However, for some people, it can bring up negative emotions, like stress, pressure, depression, and a feeling of missing out on love.
Some of my readers have reached out to me for advice recently, expressing their concerns about Valentine's Day and using the Law of Attraction for love.
So if this day is a difficult time for you right now and you'd like to be more positive, raise your vibration, and attract more love and happiness…
Today, I'd like to share with you some tips on using the Law of Attraction for love that will hopefully help you this Valentine's Day too.
5 Tips for Your Happiest Valentine's Day Yet
1. Valentine's Day only comes once a year, but love isn't a one day a year event!
Putting so much pressure into what you do for Valentine's Day, what gift you give your partner, who you spend the day with…or without..isn't what love is about.
Valentine's Day isn't about waiting for someone to make you feel loved. The perfect dinner, flowers, or even a ring, won't change how you feel about yourself if you're generally dissatisfied, unhappy, or hateful towards yourself. Valentine's Day will simply be a small attempt to cover up the real issue – the work you need to do on loving you.
Valentine's Day is about celebrating you – whether or not you have a partner. It's about using the Law of Attraction to love you! Give yourself the love you have always wanted and you will attract more love in return.
2. Pay attention to the love around you.
When you feel like you're missing out on love, become depressed, or generally feel like there is a lack of love in your life, you're not using the Law of Attraction for love in a way that will work to bring you the love and happiness you desire.
When you focus on the negative feelings and the lack, you tell the Law of Attraction that there isn't enough love in your life, which manifests as more feelings of not being loved.
Instead you should focus on all the love that is around you – whether it is from a friend, family member, coworker, or neighbor. Pay attention to the little gestures they do to let you know how much they appreciate and care for you.
Focus on all the signs of love that you see around you. Instead of getting depressed when you see couples holding hands or people getting married, choose instead to seem them as signs of the Universe showing you that love is on its way. Change how you see things around you and your life will change.
Let Valentine's Day be your sign of all the love the Law of Attraction is bringing to you.
3. Making self-love your priority is using the Law of Attraction for love to create fast results.
Whether you have a date on Valentine's day or not, the greatest gift you can receive is the love you have for yourself.
Honor that love this Valentine's Day!
Make sweet gestures towards yourself.
If you want flowers, buy yourself flowers. Not just any flowers. Buy the most perfect flowers to make your heart sing. Whether it's one rose or 50 yellow daisies, you are worth it.
If you want chocolate, buy the most delicious chocolate and savor every morsel.
Prepare yourself the nicest, candlelit dinner. Eat the foods you enjoy the most. Spend your time with the most important person in your life – you!
Don't wait for someone else to make you happy. Begin by making yourself happy. When you do, the Law of Attraction will bring you more love.
4. Change your perception.
You have control over how you view every event in your life. You decide how you will or will not allow them to impact you. When you choose to see things differently, your perception of them will change.
Change how you see events around you this Valentine's day.
Choose how you want to perceive your relationship with your partner.
Choose how you want to see what happens Valentine's night. Allow your time with your partner to be wonderful…or not. Allow your night alone to be a breath of fresh air where you get to pamper yourself and do whatever you want…or not.
You can control whether you buy your partner the right gift by deciding to view your gift as the right gift. Eliminate any doubt or worry and choose to see that you have done the right thing. Success will follow.
Allow your partner to create the most romantic way to express his/her love towards you by deciding that you will allow yourself to view what he/she does as the most romantic gesture. Throw disappointment out the door and appreciate being romanced on Valentine's Day.
No matter what you do, decide how you want to view your Valentine's Day. Choose for it to be your happiest yet and it will be.
5. Let go of what you think Valentine's Day should be.
Disregard what you think Valentine's Day should be. Forget about what friends, family, the media, and the rest of society tells you it should be.
It's just a story that you keep telling yourself, but that doesn't mean that it's a story that will help you have your happiest Valentine's Day yet.
You can change your story!
When you begin to play the old story of what Valentine's Day should be, change your story to: “I AM absolutely worth having my happiest Valentine's Day yet!”
And see what happens…
When you do, you will be using the Law of Attraction for love. And you will attract more love.
Have a Happy Valentine's Day!
Awesome! I just wrote a topic on this on a forum I am apart of. 🙂 it’s all about giving and receiving love! Thank you.
What synchronicity! You’re welcome Katryna.
This article is very helpfull. Even though I never celebrate valentine, it has been quite a long time since I have someone to share my life with…and I have been thinking lately what is wrong with me or just that I would be better of being single or somebody had put a spell on me..haha…Well anyway, thank you Elizabeth. I really apprecate this
I’m glad I could help Mastura.
I found your blog a few months ago and subscribed. I would just like to thank you for writing the most uplifting and helpful resource I have ever come across. Your blog is my absolute favourite thing to read. It is so easy to follow, helpful and positive. Thank you for the knowledge you share 🙂 You are so generous and kind.
Thank you so much for your kind words D. I really appreciate them.
I just also wanted to add that when I read your older post about ” creating your valentines day” There was an example you had on there that pretty much matched my visualization and my desire of what I am creating in my mind of what my valentines day will be like with my love ! When I looked back at my scripting in my journal of the visualiziton of what I was creating it was almost similar to the example you had given! I also been recieving positive signs from the universe a lot lately. 🙂
Wonderful!
Hi Elizabeth…
I bought your book on Manifesting Love.
I had a crush on a guy named Sam.
I practised everything as stated by you in the book. Visualizations, heart energy & everything. Just after 2 days I get a request from a guy named “Sam”(Not the ” sam” I had crush on, some other random guy) On my facebook. Now the thing is. He is even more cute then my crush & I enjoyed talking to him. But I guess I’m emotionally attached to the guy I had crush.
I want to be with my crush but at the same time I dont wanna lose this new more cute Sam.
Lol. Maybe LoA just focused on the word “Sam” & not the person & brought this new Sam in my life.
What should I do??
You should get clear on what you want.
Okie I’ll clear up my mind & focus on what I really want! 🙂
I read your book. I BELIVE IN THE LAW Of ATTTACTION BECAUSE I’m witness that it works. I WANt LOVE LIKE ALMOST EVERY HUMAN BEING BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT EVERYTIME I WANT TO ATTRACT A SPECIFIC PERSON I DOUBT ABLUT IT! IN SIMPLE WORDS I MET THE PERFECT GUY FOR ME , Someone who I can see thay things will work out well! HOWEVER MY PROBLEM IS THAT I DONT WANT HIM ENOUGH TO FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS OF YOUR BOOK! I KNOW THAT I COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM but its weird that I want to let him go and stop looking for love because I think that sometimes its better focus on you and let things just happen. I MEAN I know that he can make me happy but I dont wanna be obessed over. I JUST want to let life, universe bring the right people for me. I MEAN DONT GET ME WRONG I KNOW WHAT I WANT! IM A GUY WHO HAS HIS FEET ON THE GROUND! I wanna fall in love but, I dont want forve things…
Basically I want him but I cant follow the rules of your book because I dont like him or love him. I SEE HIM as a potencial boyfriend mayerial. I KNOW that he and I could have something amazing but idk if im wrong letting him go and whatever happens happens?
No one is forcing you to do anything. If you don’t want to, don’t. If you don’t like him, don’t be with him. Until you get rid of your resistance and limiting beliefs it probably won’t work for you anyways. They are your issue not a book.
Haha Rex take a chill pill boy!
I’ve been using LoA since 5 months now & I can relate to you because in the beginning I was unsure about a lot of things & my mindset was quite similar to you. I too used to think that ok one day a perfect guy will come to me. But after reading the book I came across “being as much specfic about what you want” thing. Well, the more you’ll be specfic the more easily things will work out because you’ll be sure about what exactly you are looking for & you’ll be just focusing on that & nothing else. Which I guess saves a lot of energy & time.
So make up your mind about what exactly you’re looking for & then simply focus on that. It could be even a guy or just a quality in him or maybe both. You can chose anything. Isn’t that awesome?
It works for me everytime! And I’m sure it will work for you as well!
Good luck boy 🙂
Thanks Jessica! Its what I did! I wrote a list of what things I want to find in someone right now, Accordint to the life that I have in the present. And it really helps to scratch those who don’t deserve to be with me. FOR EXAMPLE: I wrote: I want someone who I had not to chase or show how worthy am I. And it helps me to move on from those who rejected me in the first time when I just was trying to get to know them. Why I would want to be with someone who I had to make an effort to be with them?. LIKE I ALWAS SAY I like easy not drama. But, Ill keep posting here how everything goes in my love life! YESTERDAY I made a commitment which its about that I would not look for love or chase someone anymore! Its not becauae I give up on love. Its just that I rather focus on the important things of my life right now (school,job,etc) than find someone. Obviously im open to meet someone but I want that person come to me. I have one specific person in mind but rather than chase or make an effort to talk that person which he is my friend. ILL jut let things go naturally and see what happens. I DO NOT WANT TO FORCE THINGS!.
Great! You are doing it perfectly fine! I’m sure you’ll have success everywhere!
Meanwhile my BF is ignoring me since two days. And for two days I tried my best to find out why he is doing so. I even asked him directly & to no surprise he gave a diplomatic reply. And for two days straight I couldn’t work on my college assignments.
But now I’ve decided that my college work is more important. And if he doesn’t need me in his life then I should also not give him attention.
Lol. But I care too much. Maybe thats why I’m writing all of this here.
Anyways the point is we should know our priorties & just focus on them accordingly.
I’m sorry to hear that Jessica! Tell me how you met him. Last time I read one of your comments you were attracting certain guy and you ended up meeting other one on Facebook right? with the same name. tell me the story!
Ok. So lets call the guy I have crush on Sam 1, & the guy who sent me request on FB Sam 2.
Sam 2 made me feel exactly the way I wanted. He talked with me whole day & gave me a lot attention.
But this only lasted upto 3 dates. After the 3rd date he started ignoring me. I mean he left me confused. Even on 3rd date everything was so perfect. He was like I’m never gonna leave you & I’m grateful that I’ve finally found the love of my life. I was so happy to hear all of it on 3rd date. It was beyond what I actually expected.
But after that date he didn’t even talked me for 2 days. I left msgs & calls which he didn’t answered. Finally on 3rd day I texted him “r u busy or have u left me?” To which he replied “I’m busy”. Ok. Well. It made me calm for a moment but when I saw him online for 2 hours straight the other day I was shattered again.
So now I’ve decided that I can’t take this bullsh*t anymore!
So now that everything is clear I’m gonna use LoA to attract Sam 1 (& the desired relationship).
Haha. Funny isn’t it?
Honestlty, In my own experience and so many people that I have heard of. I THINK that he got scared or maybe he is not ready for a real relationship. IN my own experience I have met guys like you that supposedly they want the same as you and everything goes right but suddenly that person starts ti act weird and they stop to talk u. AND they use the lame excuse that they are busy. I mean come on nobody is too bussy to send a quick text message! And the worst part is that you see them online! But I think that sometimws people bring you people to get u to know what you really want. HONESTLY I have met so many people that I used to like and well nothing work right byt at least I knew what I want for the next time. BUT THE hard part is that every dissapointed you get more cold, more hurt you cant be the same pwrson.. HOWEVER I think that he did that to you because he is not ready! I mean obviously you know what you want but like one guy once told me you scared me and I Was why? Because you know what you want and I dont know if I would able to be what you expected! My own advice is that dont loose hope! Keep trying dont waste your time anymore! If you love somebody fight for that person!! Like one quote that I saw on one of my favorite tv shoes called “Private Practice” its says “I need to let myself HOPE Again! Its truee!!! Come on just one life dont waste your time go for it!
Hahaha sorry I was writting so fast that I misspelled some words haha, but I said fight for love, pick up a fight for what you want and what you deserve sometimes we stuck in people and we think oh I never gonna find something better. BUT, in fact you do!!! honestly all the people that rejected me or didnt work in the past. Evenetually I realized that they were not for me th and it was the best that life took them away from me!!! Theres always a door, theres always a chance! The universe, God , Ala whatever you want to call it Its infinity full of posibilities and storylines! Cheer up!
Awww thanks REX !! I feel so better!
And I know it’ll take a little bit time but I’ll be fine. And I deserve a lot better than that. So its ok.
Btw I forgot to tell you that I texted him again that why is he ignoring me? To which he replied “I’m not well”
I mean I dont wanna believe that but I said “take care”
The only thing that hurt me of this relationship was his fake promises. I mean what was the need to say all those things when you in reality you feel the opposite.
Anyways I’m so done with it that I’m not gonna talk about it anymore.
Btw thanks again Rex for listening me & sharing your views. I really appreciate it.
🙂