Looking over the comments and emails I’ve received lately, it appears nearly everyone feels scared and anxious about getting their desire. Whether it’s caused by recent changes in planetary alignments or the approaching holiday season, fear and anxiety are certainly elevated.
For many, it’s more than doubt about whether the Law of Attraction is working.
Some are afraid that they are creating their desire which is bringing up a lot of resistance.
Some are worried and anxious that they will never attract their desire.
Which category do you fall into?
It doesn’t matter if you identify with one or all. We’ve all been there at some point.
Fear and anxiety are normal. In fact, they’re actually really, really good things to experience when using the Law of Attraction.
Once you know you have them, you can start destroying and uncreating everything that is holding you back, thus allowing your desire to come to you.
And, most importantly, allowing you to keep your desire because if you don’t eliminate the resistance and limiting beliefs, your vibrational alignment can easily shift, allowing your desire to slip through your fingers and pass out of your life as quickly as you received it.
Any stories of people who won the lotto and later went up bankrupt come to mind after reading that? They got what they wanted, but their resistance and limiting beliefs didn’t allow them to keep it.
Let’s create a better outcome for you.
How to Know if the Law of Attraction is Working – A Technique to Calm Fear and Anxiety
Begin by awakening from the dream of identifying with being scared and anxious. You are not your fears. You are not your worries. You are not your anxiety.
You don’t need to doubt whether the Law of Attraction is working. Trust that it is. Trust that your life is unfolding exactly as you desire.
The process works all the time, not just part of the time, and is fed by that which you feel most deeply, most consistently…The trick is to stay positive in a sea of negativity. The trick is to know that the process is working even when it looks as if it is not.” – Neale Donald Walsch
The Law of Attraction is working at all times in every situation. The Law of Attraction is creating the reality you are telling it to create with your thoughts and feelings. It doesn’t matter what anyone else does, says, thinks, believes, or feels. You are the sole creator of your reality.
How to Eliminate Fear and Anxiety about Manifesting Your Desire
I want you to understand that you have the potential to change.
Any fear or anxiety you experience is a sign of unresolved problems – perhaps something happened in your childhood that is affecting you today, maybe you aren’t willing to realize how absolutely wonderful you are… Whatever it is, you can choose to change.
But you have to be willing to change.
You need to have some insight into what is causing the fear and anxiety, i.e., what your resistance and/or limiting belief stems from. Once you identify the cause, you can eliminate it.
You might be confused at first when you undertake great change. For instance, if you’re looking to resolve a major issue, you might have to alter how you perceive yourself and others. You might be tempted to act from old habits that no longer come naturally to you. Allow yourself as much time as you need to process and assimilate the changes.
I highly recommend EFT to help you eliminate the fear and anxiety quickly and easily. It’s super easy to learn with The Tapping Solution: A Revolutionary System for Stress-Free Living.
If EFT isn’t for you, try journaling from the third person. Write down everything that comes up as an unedited stream-of-consciousness. It doesn’t matter what thought comes to you, write it down. BUT, instead of using “I”, use “he or she.”
For example, instead of writing, “I’m scared I’m messing up,” write “He/She is scared (s)he’s messing up.” This will help to shift the emotions, allowing you to be more neutral and at peace.
You will reach a point where you are able to stay positive no matter how negative things may be around you. When it happens, your life will become utterly effortless and joy-filled.
You will be amazed at how your reality transforms to match your desires.