What if manifesting your soulmate using the law of attraction began with you?
What if soulmate manifestation was easy?
What if you didn't have to wait?
If you're like most people, you want to manifest your soulmate because you think your soulmate will…
…make you feel complete…
…make you feel good enough…
…make you feel loved…
But how can anyone make you feel loved if you don't love yourself?
If you go around all day, berating yourself, going over your “failures” or “flaws”, how can someone give you the love and care you want – the love and care you need to give yourself in order to feel good enough?
When you become your soulmate, you will find your soulmate.
Stop waiting for your soulmate. Stop wondering when he or she will manifest.
Start loving yourself and giving yourself everything you expect your soulmate to give you – all that loving, caring, kindness and amazing feelings of being oh so good, worthy, accepted, and wanted – then you will find your soulmate. He or she will appear in your life as a mirror of the person you are.
You have so much love inside of you that's just waiting to come out. Instead of waiting for someone else to love and adore you, look within and see how beautiful and special you are.
Remember to connect with your own power inside of you.
When you forget how wonderful you are, it's natural to give your power away and allow your relationship (or lack thereof) with someone else to define you.
If you were to meet your soulmate tomorrow, would you judge parts of them as good or bad?
Of course not! You would accept them for who they are. You would love them for their imperfections.
What if what makes you different is what makes you beautiful?
Start giving yourself the same compassion and love you would give your soulmate.
When you love and accept yourself as you are, you are able to receive love and acceptance from another. It's only when you know what it feels like to be loved and accepted that you are able to use the Law of Attraction to manifest those feelings from someone else.
Being whole and valuable to society doesn't begin when you FIND someone.
You are not less of a person if you are single. You don't need to spend all your time trying to find “the one.”
Relationships can be filled with a lot of doubts and fears, a lot of ups and downs, and a lot of tears and heartbreak, if you're looking for someone else to complete you. That is a tremendous amount of expectation and pressure to place on someone!
Your relationship or marriage won't be successful simply because you found your soulmate. You won't be happy together just because you have a lot in common. Being in love doesn't guarantee happiness. Relationships still take work – and they have their good and bad moments.
Instead of spending your time and energy looking for that special someone, become the person who can thrive in a relationship and make an amazing partner!
Focus on your own happiness and wholeness. Make your self-worth a priority. Know how to be complete, happy and loved independently of a relationship or another person.
The more you do so, the easier it will be for you to attract higher quality partners who treat you well!
When you take responsibility for your happiness, and begin to love and accept yourself as you are, you naturally become attractive to others.
Become your soulmate and your soulmate will find you.
You are the only person you will spend your entire lifetime with. You are the only person who will be with you every moment of every day – past, present, and future.
The next time you want to manifest your soulmate, remember that you already have.
* Featured image courtesy of love from ginger
