I get a lot of emails and comments asking for Law of Attraction advice, so I thought I'd start a series of posts answering your questions. Keep sending in your questions!
This week's question comes from “Stuck in a Cycle” – wondering why her manifestations don't last…
“One thing I did want to request a post about is the cycles people go through with manifesting specific desires (I can’t be the only one this happens to). For example if someone manifests their desire and then pushes it away and then manifests it again. What things can be addressed to stop the cycle and keep your manifestation? Thanks!”
I understand how frustrating this can be! You work so hard to manifest what you want, and then it slips through your fingers. Why won't it stick around?
The simplest answer is that you're still using the Law of Attraction when you push it away, you probably just don't realize it.
What does this mean?
You know how in order to manifest something you have to be in vibrational alignment with it? And whatever you are in vibrational alignment with is what is in your life?
Well, when you draw something to you, it's because you're in alignment with it. When you push it away, you're no longer in alignment with it.
But once it manifested, you probably changed what you were doing.
Maybe you weren't comfortable having it in your life.
Maybe you were no longer grateful…perhaps feeling a little frustrated about something or even taking it for granted.
Maybe you started worrying you would lose it or it would be taken away from you.
Perhaps you had resistance or a limiting belief crop up. A little voice may have been in your head saying, “I'm not good enough,” or “I'm not sure this is what I want.”
Whatever the cause or causes were, you ultimately used the Law of Attraction to push it away from you. You didn't realize you were doing it, but it happened nonetheless.
That's how powerful the Law of Attraction is!
It's always working, even when you aren't paying attention to it.
Just because you manifested your dream doesn't mean the Law of Attraction stops. It doesn't mean you can fall back into old habits or negativity.
If you want to create permanent change, you have to change.
The cycle begins and ends with you.
So the next time you manifest something, if you want it to stay in your life, keep using the Law of Attraction. Continue to appreciate your manifestation, feel good about it, send it heart energy, and continue to be at one with it.
You'll find your manifestation will stick around.
What burning Law of Attraction question do you need advice on?