Why do you want to manifest your soulmate?
Maybe you want to manifest your soulmate because you want to feel whole or you want to feel loved.
Maybe you feel lonely or incomplete.
Maybe you want to feel successful or free to be yourself.
All of these reasons are great, but they're really qualities that you need to develop in your relationship with yourself. Until you find them within, you may find your soulmate relationship to be lacking.
So please be willing to manifest your relationship with yourself as much as your relationship with your soulmate. You deserve it!
Loving yourself exactly the way you are will help you to align more fully with who you are and will help you manifest your soulmate relationship easily and quickly.
What are the secrets to manifesting your soulmate?
These 10 secrets will help you manifest your soulmate easily and effortlessly. The more you are able to follow them, the faster you will manifest your soulmate.
1. Raise your vibration.
Raising your vibration before doing any of the steps below will add energy to them, drawing your soulmate to you as if by magic. The more consistently you vibrate as already having your soulmate, the more you will attract your soulmate to you. Your soulmate will manifest directly into your life.
Really focus into feeling awesome. Enter into a blissful state where you feel truly loved.
2. Write down everything you love about yourself and what you have to give to a relationship.
You are an amazing person with so many wonderful things to give. What are the fabulous things about yourself that you like the best? What do you want your soulmate to notice about you? What do you want him/her to love the most about you?
Toot your own horn!
3. Write down your ideal relationship.
List everything you want your ideal relationship to be. Include all of the qualities you want it to express.
We're not talking about eye color, hair color, or waist size. Focus on the important aspects of the relationship, such as:
- how you feel when you're with your soulmate
- the things the two of you do together
- common morals and goals
- affectionate
- integrity
- dependable
- whether you have similar or complimentary financial viewpoints and habits
- whether you're on the same page when it comes to having kids
- honesty
- emotionally available
- sense of humor
- self-assured
- if you have children already or plan to have children with your soulmate, whether you have similar or compatible parenting styles
- respect
- supportive
- good communication
Make sure to include how you would feel if you already had your soulmate in your life. How spontaneous, affectionate, and loved would you feel?
Some other things you might consider including are:
- I immediately recognize my soulmate, and he/she recognizes me.
- It is the most fulfilling love relationship of my life.
- We are so happy together.
- People tell us how inspiring our love us, and how it reminds them of what it truly means to love and be loved.
- We empower each other.
- We bring out the best in each other.
4. Express and appreciate those qualities within you.
Go back over your list and highlight all the feelings you wrote down about how you would feel if you already had those feelings in your life.
How can you feel those things in your life now? How can you feel loved, cherished, respected, wanted? Live your life as if those feelings were already true.
Consistently feel like you are already in a loving relationship with your soulmate.
Feel at one with your soulmate and your relationship with him/her.
If you want to get married, regularly feel a wedding ring on your finger as you go about your day. If you don't know what this would feel like, get a ring and learn the feeling.
5. List everything you need to do first.
What do you need to do before you are ready to be in a relationship with your soulmate?
Write them all down and see if they are things you truly need to do.
If they are valid, do them and realize you are ready to manifest your soulmate. If they aren't valid, let them go.
For example, if your home is so filthy you need a hazmat suit to walk in it safely, cleaning your house is something you need to do first. However, completing your novel probably isn't valid. While it would be nice, it isn't something that can keep you from your soulmate.
6. Be open!
Be open to manifesting your soulmate. Allow your soulmate to manifest in whatever way the Universe chooses.
Don't place limitations, such as thinking your soulmate can only come to you through church or that you can only find your soulmate online. Be open to your soulmate manifesting in every way possible, both the expected and the unexpected.
What if your soulmate is your neighbor?
What if you meet your soulmate while you're vacationing in another country?
What if you meet your soulmate in a coffee shop?
What if your soulmate finds you while he/she is on a business trip?
What if you meet your soulmate next week?
What if you meet your soulmate later tonight?
7. Be in your relationship!
You haven't manifested your soulmate because of how you have been focusing your energy.
The more you think that you are lonely, need to find “the one,” or that you haven't met your soulmate, the more blocks you put up to having your soulmate relationship.
You need to do everything you can to pretend you don't need to find love.
Feel like you have already manifested your soulmate.
Pretend you are so happy and in such a loving relationship that you don't care whether you meet anyone new or not.
Pretend that you are so happy with your love life that you don't care if anyone responds to your online dating profile.
Live each day as if you're already loved, cherished, and appreciated. Live as if you already have all the affection and spontaneity that you want in your world.
8. Be grateful!
Be grateful for all the ways you are already loved by friends, family, pets, nature…the Universe!
Appreciate the wonderful person you get to spend your life with.
Be thankful for meeting your soulmate now.
9. Take action!
Take action and move towards your soulmate relationship.
So many times people think the Law of Attraction is just visualizing, and then sit around and wait for something to happen. You have to be willing to move towards your goal.
Action creates a tremendous amount of energy and helps your soulmate manifest in your life.
Take action towards manifesting your soulmate, but remain detached from the outcome.
10. Consistently keep your vibration high!
Your goal is a high vibration. No matter what happens, remain at one with your soulmate and focus on what you want.
If you keep meeting “the wrong people”, don't worry about it. It is the energy you put into creating your soulmate relationship that is important.
Know that the Universe is always listening, always there for you, and always working in your best interest to bring you good things. Don't be impressed with outward appearances.
Keep your vibration high, remain open, and continue to take action towards manifesting your soulmate. Your relationship will come!
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This is awesome! I created a relationship list after reading your book on Manifesting Love. I didn’t think to add in stuff about how being in my relationship makes me feel.
I do have items such as:
“We are so happy together”
“We are deeply in Love with each other”
“We have the same goals and similar morals”
“We are very warm, loving, and affectionate with each other. Always kissing, hugging and touching each other”
I am going to update my relationship list.
Should I be more detailed with the stuff on my list?
Thanks in advance.
I can’t answer that without your full list. 🙂 Read your list and see what you think. Does it express everything you want in a relationship? Then you’re probably fine.
I am new at this . How do you word what you want with law of attraction. Kind of confused but open to learning.
Thank you
Mia Aedo
Please explore this site for information on how to word things. It’s discussed in multiple articles. You may want to start with the article on affirmations you commented on – the same rules apply (positive, present tense, etc.).
I see why it worked now. I wrote down why I was grateful and made a short list of qualities I wanted in my life. 7 months later I met someone who filled those qualities. It’s so interesting how the Universe works! The law of attraction is powerful!
I have you book, have read it alao quite many times, after months of trying also i am facing problem in letting it go. The person i like is on my mind most of the timws. Any way out. Thanks for your help.
Please search this site for articles on letting go. You can use the search box in the menu bar. One of the articles is even linked to directly in the sidebar.
Hi Elizabeth, I have a question. Could you please give me your opinion? 🙂
7 years ago I think I attracted my soulmate. He’s a great, great guy, we are extremely compatible, best friends, we are great to each other, had the same goals, build a lot together, have great fun etc, etc… We dated for a bit then moved together, and are living under the same roof for almost 7 years… The problem is, a few years ago I started losing the physical attraction I had for him. I still feel happy living with him, but lost all interest in kissing, in sex (with him) and everything. I’ve had feelings and desire for other men, though. We live happily like best friends, but that’s all.
Do you think there’s such a thing as a “fraternal soulmate relationship”?
Hi Mimi, I believe there are many people in our lives who can be soulmates. I believe we create our reality (This has also been proven by quantum physics.). We create every aspect of our lives, including our relationships and the roles people play in our lives. In that regards, if you choose to change your relationship, you have the power to do so. If you choose to move on, remain friends, and manifest another soulmate, you can do that too.
Thanks a lot. 🙂
xx
Dear Elizabeth,
About 3 months ago I read (and loved) your book Manifesting Love. All I wanted was to manifest my ex. At the beggining, I did exactly everything you say on the book, but after a couple of weeks I started being “lazy”, losing the excitment about the visualizations with him – I’m not sure why -, so I finally could let go to the point I asked “for him or someone better”. Then, to be honest, what I was really doing was “only” trying to keep my vibration high, being truly grateful and cheerful (it feels so nice!), being positive. Anyways, no sign of my ex so far, BUT some weeks agos I met a guy. I had being looking a lot (more trying to get over the ex I guess) but couldn’t find anyone really interesting until this guy showed up. I don’t know if it’s going to work or what’s going to happens, but he’s just amazing. I always loved music, and he happens to be a wonderful musician; his music touches me deeply. I feel happiness and at peace with him, I can’t stop smiling. We developed, really quickly, strong feeling for each other. I just can’t stop thinking about him, and he feels the same. We’re talking about kids and everything. 🙂
Even if I’m (obviously) not sure of what’s going to happen, I just wanted to write my story because I do believe in the powerful signals we send when whe are feeling good, happy, lighthearted. It’s just amazing how I “let go” the ex I was so obsessed about, the guy I was sure that was “the one and only” – even if he wasn’t good to me.
So that’s what I’m gonna try to be, now and forever: grateful and with my heart filled with bliss as much as possible. 🙂
Best.
I’m so glad everything has worked out well for you. Gratitude and bliss are absolutely the way to go in all things. 🙂 They work wonders!
Hi Elizabeth,
Love your site! I read your post about your Mom’s manifestation box, then this post. I would like to know your “Ideal Relationship” paper from this post, is that what one would put into their own personal manifestation box for manifesting the relationship they want?
Thank you,
Kristin
PS I forgot to mention or a manifestation notebook. To me the notebook seems more personal. Or can one seal it in an envelope?
Thanks again, appreciate it.