Using the Law of Attraction for love and relationships works whether you believe it will or not.
You don’t have to be in a place where you are sure you know how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest love.
You just have to remember that the Law of Attraction is about your thoughts. Like thoughts attract like things.
When using the Law of Attraction for love, you have to stop focusing on what your love life or relationships are like now.
If you focus on how things are now, your thoughts will be filled with what is…and the Law of Attraction will give you matching experiences.
If you think that you're lonely or all alone in the world, the Law of Attraction will bring you more loneliness.
If you're frustrated with your love life, the Law of Attraction will bring you more frustration.
If you think that you'll never find love, the Law of Attraction will bring you more instances where you don't have love.
Don’t look at your relationship as it is now, but visualize it and mentally picture how you want it to be.
Live as if it already is reality.
Do the things you would do if you already had the relationship you want. Go on that vacation you've always wanted. Take those cooking classes. Sign-up for a massage course.
These actions are powerful thoughts that will draw more love into your life. Each action is telling the Universe that you aren't waiting until you're with someone to do X. After all, if you're thinking that you're waiting for someone, you're telling the Law of Attraction to bring you more waiting…
Throughout all of this, remember to love and respect yourself so that you can attract someone who loves and respects you.
Focus on how wonderful you are. Even if you can just focus on one thing that’s good about you, that's okay. Keep focusing on it and the Law of Attraction will give you more things that you like about yourself.
And when you manifest your love, or if you have a relationship now that is a struggle…focus on what you appreciate about the other person.
Don’t complain about him or her. It will only give you more things to complain about.
Every day, focus on all the things you like about him…his strengths, his sense of humor, his ability to get things done…
And always remember that love is just a feeling.
You’re the only one who can generate it, but your ability to generate love is unlimited.
Love your life. Love yourself. Love everything you can.
The more love you send out, the more will come back to you.
Hello..ELIZABETH..
I believe in law of attraction cause my experience in many years show me that it’s work. But now I have some problem. It’s about my relationship with my ex girlfriend.
Last year LOA broung her to me . everything is so sweet and perfect!
We spent all day and night together. it’s about 6-7 month . finally I think she was bored me.We quarrel many time and it’s not my mistake . so I try to make her happy but she leave me and said don’t bother her, don’t talk to her forever and said we weren’t a lover or a friend .many words from her make me cry.It’s very terrible.
I ‘m praying and still use LOA .in 2 month since we broke there is a good sign.She initiates to contact me ..talk to me ..add friend my facebook…. apolpgize me…and ask me to still be her friend. And I’ve known she broke her new boyfriend!
I’m very happy but I feel so hurt that she just want me to be her friend. In my heart still have a pain.so i avoid to meet and talk to her
I observe that she try to greet me in many time but i ignore her.
Deeply in my heart. I still love her and want she comes back to me.I’m confused..sometimes I think I can forgive her but tell you the truth I can’t forget what she said and what she did to me. i want her to reconcile me..but she doesn’t do anything more than that i tell you….if she do more than that i think we can make a new relationship .
Please tell me how i can do i think my heart hasn’t energy so..confused !
thank you in advance .
Hi Matt – You have to be willing to forgive her. Not forgiving her is not forgiving yourself for allowing what happened to happen. Wanting her to reconcile with you only creates more wanting. You say you want her to come back to you, but you push her away and ignore her. You’re not in alignment with getting her back. You’re in alignment with not having her in your life. If you really want her back, you have to give her a chance. Read through the articles listed in this article for more tips.
Hello, Elizabeth
Thank you very much for your advice. I’m very greateful.Your words make me feel clear and peaceful.Now i know “forgive & forget” two things i need to do now if i want to have everything.
Every article in this website is very excellent and magnificent and you are very nice ! I love you Elizabeth !
I’m sure i will purchase your book.I want to read it now !
GOODBYE & TAKE CARE !
You’re welcome Matt!
Hi Elizabeth,
I was wondering, my boyfriend took a job transfer a year ago. We have a long distance relationship. Things have been hard recently. I want to move to where he is with him, and I want our relationship to be better, like it was before or better. We used to talk all the time and text alot and such and for some reason the past few months it has gotten less.
I started worrying a few months ago and it is like even though I never said anything to him it caused him to pull away. One day he is all lovey dovey the next distant. I really want to change this and based on my circumstances am kind of unsure how to proceed.
I was wondering in your book you said you can change a relationship to make it better. But am unsure how since our relationship is a long distance.
I keep trying to focus on how I want things to be and I start to feel sad because it makes me think of how good things were.
I usually am the one who contacts him first. I wonder if I should just stop contacting him and let him miss me.
From your site I have seen manifesting a relationship when the person lives somewhere else, but haven’t noticed any information on someone who is already in a long-distance relationship. I am not sure if I just apply the same techniques? I am sure you are very busy, I was wondering if you could give me a few pointers based on my circumstances?
I really appreciate any input.
Kathy S.
Distance doesn’t matter when creating the relationship you want. It’s only an obstacle in your mind and will only have an effect if you allow it. The same techniques apply in a long-distance relationship. Just follow the techniques you already have and don’t worry about the distance. It really doesn’t matter – you’re the one who creates you’re reality, not the distance. The distance is just an aspect of your reality that you have created in the past. Your future is unwritten and waiting for you to create.
Worry is a lower vibrational energy and can unintentionally create the very things you don’t want to create, such as him pulling away. If you look back over events, you might notice how things you’ve been worrying about have now been created, and how problems may have begun around the time you started worrying. You wouldn’t have had to say anything to him. The Law of Attraction works whether you want it to or not. The key is to focus on feeling good, doing things that make you happy. That’s the place from which you can create what you want.
I see what you mean. I was looking at distance as an obstacle. I notice that when I started to worry, that is when he started to pull away. Like one day worrying, fearing the next I would be optimistic trying to create with my thoughts. Up and down like a yo-yo and that is when the hot and cold pattern with him seems to have started.
Whenever I would worry or fear even though I was so upset I kept changing the thoughts to a positive thought even though I was feeling bad.
When I look at it and from things I read on your site it is almost as though it created confusion and a hot cold pattern with him.
Thank you again. Your input means a lot to me
PS Dear Elizabeth,
I was also wondering as part of my creating with him I want to be with him married. Does one see him asking me to come there or do I need to see it as being there with him already?
Thank you
Why not see yourself as being married to him? Does it matter how it happens so long as it does happen?
HI Elizabeth,I would like to know. if she date someone else ,can I apply the law of attraction for get her back or make her love me again.
I think LOA does works for me and I think she still loving me cause she flirts me everyday we meet and try to greet me.but I still fear to reconcile with her.please tell me…
thank you in advance/^^
Hi, My boyfriend has been dating on and off for almost 4 years. I love with with all of my heart. Ive dated other guys when we were on our downtime, but none of them compared to him. Im so insecure in our relationship because he has 4 kids by 3 different women. Right now I feel so stuck because I love him amd dont want to lose him, but sometimes the pressure is too much…can u give me advice please..
Does the law of attraction work if he’s with someone else? My ex-guy lives in another country and he’s living with this girl now who he’s got a kid with. Can the law of attraction work for me in these circumstances..???
Hey Elizabeth! So when visualizing the love life I want, I know im supposed to focus on the feeling of the relationship. But when I do, should I be visualizing an ideal partner? Is it okay to visualize a person I had a romantic encounter with but no longer want to have a relationship with them? It’s just easy to get the good feelings from this past relationship, but I want to meet someone new.
Have a wonderful day!
Thank you so much for your book. I have read it and used the techniques which have worked so far. I have a few questions…my ex and I broke up back in April. We were in a long distance relationship for about 6-7 months. Really close, basically my best friend. The distance was too hard and she couldn’t do it anymore. We still talked every now and then, flirting and reminiscing and catching up. But here recently she told me she has a boyfriend now. Then about a month later she asks me to go to a concert with her and that I can stay with her at her house, which was something I manifested but she still has a boyfriend. I’ve followed the steps of giving her the cold shoulder and making her miss me but how can I do that when she has a boyfriend? My next next question has to do with thinking. I read my scripted visualization and look at my vision board twice a day. It’s really uplifting. I send out heart energy which has worked because the other day she texted me a picture of a few things I’ve given her and that she could never throw them away. My question is, can thinking about her and all the good times we had and thinking about our future together, can that delay results and should I just stick to doing the scripted visualizations and sending heart energy? Thank you so much!
You should read this post https://www.applythelawofattraction.com/manifesting-love/ It answers your question.