This week's Law of Attraction question focuses on how to manifest a relationship with a specific person.
Question: “I want to manifest a relationship with a specific person. How do I do that?” From, Lost in Love
My Answer:
Can you manifest a specific person?
Yes, but…
Manifesting a relationship with a specific person is a tricky area because many people focus on how they aren't in a relationship with the person, rather than focusing on the relationship they want to have. This can create a lot of resistance to manifesting a specific person, causing them to try to control the outcome.
Important Tips for Manifesting a Relationship with a Specific Person
Whenever you try to manifest something specific, such as a relationship, sometimes you'll get it, but “it” may not include everything that you want. It's only afterwards that you realize that it wasn't what you really wanted.
Because you are seeking to manifest a specific person, rather than the type of relationship you desire, the relationship you manifest with the person might not be the one you wanted after all – the specific person may not be everything that you truly want.
Instead, you should focus on what you want the specific person to bring to your life, what you believe a relationship with this person would give you – love, comfort, fun, etc.
You can even make a list of everything that you desire in the relationship, such as:
- We have a lot of fun together.
- He/she is always there when I need him/her.
- We have wonderful conversations.
- And so on…
Remember that you can manifest whatever you desire, but it is the Universe that decides when and how you will manifest what you truly want. Keep this in mind if you ever begin to feel like the Law of Attraction isn't working, or you become scared or anxious.
If this happens, remember to let the Universe determine how best to bring you the relationship you truly want.
And if the specific person you want a relationship with is a match to everything you want, then you will manifest a relationship with that specific person.
Get even more tips on manifesting a specific person with my book, Manifesting Love: How to Use the Law of Attraction to Attract a Specific Person, Get Your Ex Back, and Have the Relationship of Your Dreams
I am extremely impressed at how well this worked. I started using it 3 weeks ago. Last night the the guy I liked asked me on a date. You should write more.
I’m so glad it worked for you Gina. I have a lot more that I plan to write. Thanks for the encouragement!
What does letting go mean really? Does it mean not be around hi
At all? I love a guy who works in a drugstore ,I don’t know just how to let go? Cos the only way we met is that I go to that drugstore. Can u help me plz?:)
I mean can I just sit home and send love or somehow I must be around him? I don’t get what to do!
Plz plz help me with this.the only way I meet him is to go to his store,what does letting go of attachment to the specific one means exactly?to stay far from him?!not to be around him at all?
Hi Mary, Thanks for all of your questions. Letting go of attachment doesn’t mean to stay far away from him. It means don’t worry about the outcome. You have to reach a point where you’re okay with whatever happens – being with him or not. When you’ve reached this state, you’ve released all resistance and are allowing the Universe to bring the relationship to you.
More tips on what to do are in the following articles:
Law of Attraction Love Specific Person: 7 Great Ways to Get the One You Want
The Importance of Feeling GOOD
Manifesting Love: Specific Person
Law of Attraction for Love
You Attract By Vibration
What Everybody Ought to Know About Law of Attraction Visualization
Advanced Law of Attraction Techniques: Remembering
Thank you very much dear Elizabeth. I really needed to hear from you,thanks for being there for us.
You’re welcome Mary!
Elizabeth–I am impressed with this site, your posts, and the way you talk about things. You explain very well. Thanks so much. 🙂
Thanks ToDe! I’m glad you like it. 🙂
I am married to the wrong person , he yells alot , lives on computer all night and plays live on xbox halo and i go to bed alone i met him july 7th 2010 and married him november 17th 2011 i left him in september 22 2011 came back he said he would change but i wasn’t using my head got married and he is verbal abusive to me always threating me about getting a restraining order against me or he is going to the courthouse , he suppose to be a pastor he says i hear him cause alot on the game and to other live players , my point is i cant stand him the way he is and he doesn’t allow me to hang my dreamcatchers up and its witchcraft and very controlling and i am not happy i been visalizing , hoping to have the man of my desires i pictured how he looks and how he treats me its so great and the dreamhome we will have and i have this always in my mind i wrote it to universe i really deserve this and start a new life with a different man that treats me so good i believe i will manifest this i asked god i be so grateful for my desires and i want this new life , soulmate ,
And he goes to bed.in morning when i am getting up and plz i really want a new man and hoping i run into him and i leave and get a divorce and start a new life i will keep my faith and its going to manifest soon
Best of luck Helen! Keep visualizing and having faith. I hope things work out for the best for you.
thank u i have faith , i am believing and my dream will cometrue i aint happy with the one im with he is so hateful , i just made a mistake getting married i want the better life i deserve i believe my desires will come i have to have faith
I been keep saying abundance, wealth , prosperity and yesterday i walked up town and on the way home walking back home on the sidewalk there was ten dollars in the bushes and always people walking on the sidewalk i found it it must be the universe is showing me some signs that its comming and when i checked my email were they draw fortune cards and one was the omega card saying my desires our comming to fruitation
Waiting with faith that the rest of my desires to happen
It’s so wonderful that you’re having so many successes! Thanks for sharing them! Keep walking with faith and the rest of your desires will happen. You already know how to make the Law of Attraction work.
Thank u for responding , when more starts showing up i will inform u and thank u
i am sorry i don’t get this. if the specific person has to like me back what is the use of using LOA then? i am honestly confused. please answer and thanks in advance.
Like I explained, it all comes down to control, resistance, beliefs… If you aren’t open to allowing and have a low vibration, it’s hard to manifest anything you want, even a specific person. Focusing on something more general can move you away from resistance. It’s really about you – your resistance, your vibration, your control of the outcome. It is not about the other person liking you back.
Liz i have had a crush on this guy since 6th grade and after elementary school we parted ways to different high schools and i havent seen him since and i want to bring him in my life wat do i do
Elizabeth is no longer responding to posts. She’s working on answering everyone’s questions in future blogs as it says at the bottom of the comment box. There is a wealth of info on this site that should you help with your question. I might add that it’s never too late to attract that person back into your life. There’s people who have attracted a specific person into their lives that haven’t seen each other in a much longer time than a couple years. You have to imagine in great sensory detail, how wonderful it is to be in a loving relationship with that person. You must have complete faith in universe and not be disuaded by outer appearances until your desire is a concrete fact. You will come to realize if you haven’t by now, that it is completely possible to fulfill any one of your desires including a loving relationship with a specific person. Remember others have done this. Your no different! Much luck to you!
I’ve been trying to manifest my specific person for months and I have your book and I was wondering do you have to know your specific person to manifest them?