Why do you want to manifest your soulmate?
Maybe you want to manifest your soulmate because you want to feel whole or you want to feel loved.
Maybe you feel lonely or incomplete.
Maybe you want to feel successful or free to be yourself.
All of these reasons are great, but they're really qualities that you need to develop in your relationship with yourself. Until you find them within, you may find your soulmate relationship to be lacking.
So please be willing to manifest your relationship with yourself as much as your relationship with your soulmate. You deserve it!
Loving yourself exactly the way you are will help you to align more fully with who you are and will help you manifest your soulmate relationship easily and quickly.
What are the secrets to manifesting your soulmate?
These 10 secrets will help you manifest your soulmate easily and effortlessly. The more you are able to follow them, the faster you will manifest your soulmate.
1. Raise your vibration.
Raising your vibration before doing any of the steps below will add energy to them, drawing your soulmate to you as if by magic. The more consistently you vibrate as already having your soulmate, the more you will attract your soulmate to you. Your soulmate will manifest directly into your life.
Really focus into feeling awesome. Enter into a blissful state where you feel truly loved.
2. Write down everything you love about yourself and what you have to give to a relationship.
You are an amazing person with so many wonderful things to give. What are the fabulous things about yourself that you like the best? What do you want your soulmate to notice about you? What do you want him/her to love the most about you?
Toot your own horn!
3. Write down your ideal relationship.
List everything you want your ideal relationship to be. Include all of the qualities you want it to express.
We're not talking about eye color, hair color, or waist size. Focus on the important aspects of the relationship, such as:
- how you feel when you're with your soulmate
- the things the two of you do together
- common morals and goals
- whether you have similar or complimentary financial viewpoints and habits
- whether you're on the same page when it comes to having kids
- emotionally available
- sense of humor
- if you have children already or plan to have children with your soulmate, whether you have similar or compatible parenting styles
- good communication
Make sure to include how you would feel if you already had your soulmate in your life. How spontaneous, affectionate, and loved would you feel?
Some other things you might consider including are:
- I immediately recognize my soulmate, and he/she recognizes me.
- It is the most fulfilling love relationship of my life.
- We are so happy together.
- People tell us how inspiring our love us, and how it reminds them of what it truly means to love and be loved.
- We empower each other.
- We bring out the best in each other.
4. Express and appreciate those qualities within you.
Go back over your list and highlight all the feelings you wrote down about how you would feel if you already had those feelings in your life.
How can you feel those things in your life now? How can you feel loved, cherished, respected, wanted? Live your life as if those feelings were already true.
Consistently feel like you are already in a loving relationship with your soulmate.
If you want to get married, regularly feel a wedding ring on your finger as you go about your day. If you don't know what this would feel like, get a ring and learn the feeling.
5. List everything you need to do first.
What do you need to do before you are ready to be in a relationship with your soulmate?
Write them all down and see if they are things you truly need to do.
If they are valid, do them and realize you are ready to manifest your soulmate. If they aren't valid, let them go.
For example, if your home is so filthy you need a hazmat suit to walk in it safely, cleaning your house is something you need to do first. However, completing your novel probably isn't valid. While it would be nice, it isn't something that can keep you from your soulmate.
6. Be open!
Be open to manifesting your soulmate. Allow your soulmate to manifest in whatever way the Universe chooses.
Don't place limitations, such as thinking your soulmate can only come to you through church or that you can only find your soulmate online. Be open to your soulmate manifesting in every way possible, both the expected and the unexpected.
What if your soulmate is your neighbor?
What if you meet your soulmate while you're vacationing in another country?
What if you meet your soulmate in a coffee shop?
What if your soulmate finds you while he/she is on a business trip?
What if you meet your soulmate next week?
What if you meet your soulmate later tonight?
7. Be in your relationship!
You haven't manifested your soulmate because of how you have been focusing your energy.
The more you think that you are lonely, need to find “the one,” or that you haven't met your soulmate, the more blocks you put up to having your soulmate relationship.
You need to do everything you can to pretend you don't need to find love.
Feel like you have already manifested your soulmate.
Pretend you are so happy and in such a loving relationship that you don't care whether you meet anyone new or not.
Pretend that you are so happy with your love life that you don't care if anyone responds to your online dating profile.
Live each day as if you're already loved, cherished, and appreciated. Live as if you already have all the affection and spontaneity that you want in your world.
8. Be grateful!
Be grateful for all the ways you are already loved by friends, family, pets, nature…the Universe!
Appreciate the wonderful person you get to spend your life with.
Be thankful for meeting your soulmate now.
9. Take action!
Take action and move towards your soulmate relationship.
So many times people think the Law of Attraction is just visualizing, and then sit around and wait for something to happen. You have to be willing to move towards your goal.
Action creates a tremendous amount of energy and helps your soulmate manifest in your life.
Take action towards manifesting your soulmate, but remain detached from the outcome.
10. Consistently keep your vibration high!
Your goal is a high vibration. No matter what happens, remain at one with your soulmate and focus on what you want.
If you keep meeting “the wrong people”, don't worry about it. It is the energy you put into creating your soulmate relationship that is important.
Know that the Universe is always listening, always there for you, and always working in your best interest to bring you good things. Don't be impressed with outward appearances.
Keep your vibration high, remain open, and continue to take action towards manifesting your soulmate. Your relationship will come!
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