How to Attract a Specific Person

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How to Attract a Specific Person

You can attract a specific person with the Law of Attraction.

The one you love is the most important person to you, and there’s no reason why you have to give up hope. With the Law of Attraction, you create every aspect of your reality…including attracting a specific person, healing a relationship when things look impossible, and having an ex come back into your life.

It doesn’t matter what your situation is like. It can get better.

This article if for everyone who has questions about using the Law of Attraction for the love of a specific person, but is afraid to ask. Keep reading to find out how to manifest the love you want.

How to Attract a Specific Person Using the Law of Attraction for Love

To manifest a specific person, the Law of Attraction for Love works by focusing on you. It isn’t about the other person. It’s about you.

Sometimes this can be the hardest part of the Law of Attraction to grasp because when there’s a person we love or are attracted to, he/she is all we can think about. We think the solution is in using the Law of Attraction to get the person to love us or notice us. But the Law of Attraction is about you – your thoughts, your feelings, and your vibration.

So how do you focus on yourself so that the Law of Attraction can bring you a specific person?

Here are 7 great ways to attract a specific person:

1. Be confident in yourself. Realize the great person that you are and that it doesn’t matter what others think about you. You don’t have to make someone else like you or love you because you already love yourself. Self-confidence is irresistible and will attract people to you.

2. Focus on the positive. Let go of all your negative thoughts….such as “it’s hard to find anyone,” “why don’t they see how good I am,” and “no one will ever love me.” You have a lot of great qualities that make you so worthy of anyone’s love and attention. Others do notice you and appreciate you. There is love all around you. Let it in. When you let it in and focus on the positive, you change your vibration and open a door for the Law of Attraction for love to bring you your specific person.

3. Love without fear of getting hurt. The scariest thing about love is opening yourself up to it. When you open yourself, there’s a chance you might get hurt. If you’re afraid of getting hurt, you might unconsciously be preventing someone from getting as close to you as you want. Be willing to take the risk and fully open yourself to love. You will manifest the love you want.

4. Have fun. People are most attracted to smiles and laughter. When you’re having a good time, others notice and want to be with you. So do the things that make you happy…whether it’s watching a funny movie or going to your favorite park to eat lunch. Enjoy your life. The more fun and joy you have, the faster you can attract a specific person.

5. See the positive. Focus on the good things about the specific person you want the Law of Attraction to bring you. Look for something to appreciate. This can be tough if there are negative feelings between the two of you, and you might only be able to find one thing in the beginning, but if you keep working at it, it will get easier. If you’re in a relationship with the person already, you should start to see his/her behavior change and things start improving between the two of you.

6. Appreciate the contrast. Be happy for what you have. Forget about the things that you are wanting. Once you can be happy in the moment, the things you want will start falling in place, including your love life.

7. Be willing to let the other person go. This is one of the hardest parts of the Law of Attraction for love when attracting a specific person. You know you want to be with him/her, but now you’re being told you need to be willing to lose them. Crazy, right?

But it’s only when you are okay with not being with them, that you open the path for the Law of Attraction to attract your specific person to you. Until you’re okay with not being with him/her, a part of you is resisting and making it impossible for you to have what you want. This means, according to the Law of Attraction, that until you’re okay with possibly losing him/her, it will be difficult for you to have the relationship you want with him/her. You have to be okay with not having him/her.

I know this isn’t easy. I know how hard it is. It’s why, when working with the Law of Attraction, it’s often best to say, “I want X or something better” or “I want a relationship with my boyfriend or someone better.” Because what if you could have someone better? What if you could be with someone who didn’t want to spend a day without you, let alone not be able to meet you every few days?

But whatever you decide to do, focus on doing what makes you happy. Don’t worry about how things are with your specific person all the time. Worry about yourself. Pamper yourself. Take care of yourself Let him/her see what they’re missing. The Law of Attraction will bring you the love you want.

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162 Comments

  1. Good ideas! I really like 1-5. Whenever I’ve wanted to get someone back, I’ve gone out dancing with friends and flirted with all the cute guys. In no time, we’ve gotten back together. It works every time!

    • That’s great Mary! I’m glad you’ve had so much success using the Law of Attraction for a specific person! Having fun and enjoying yourself works wonders. Keep up the good work!

  2. i broke up with my guy just a week back. we were in deep love.but he was realy irriated with me flirting around with other guyz.but i never had any affair with any guy while i was in relationship with him nigther did i cheat on him.dayz back first time he caught me lying ,well i had just called a guy friend of mine(who he dislikes) but i did not tell him about it while he was goin through my phone he just found his contact in the dialled no. and after that he broke up with me. but now when i have changed for him completely , i have stopped talkin 2 every guy friend of mine he doesnt trust me and he doesnt wanna come back.but i cant get over him,i realy love him truly. what do i do.i tried giving him some cute surprises and getting him back but he says his liking hasnt incresed for me at all.

    • To be successful using the Law of Attraction for a specific person, you need to stop running after him and start focusing on yourself. Do things that make you happy. This will draw him to you faster than what you’re doing now.

  3. i am madly in love with a guy…m crazy about him…it was a no strings attached kinda relationship…but i fell in love with him…he has all the good qualities that i would wanna see in my husband…but when i told him about my feelings for him, he told me that he likes me more than a like but less than love…i am hurt…i love him a lot…we are in touch…but he is’nt giving much time for me…how can i make him love me like how i love him by using law of attraction???…please help me.

    • The Law of Attraction for Love for a specific person works by focusing on yourself. It isn’t about the specific person you’re in love with. I know he’s all you can think about right now, but if you want to use the Law of Attraction you have to focus on you. Do the things that make you happy. Raise your vibration. Focus on doing what makes you feel good.

  4. I was in a relationship wid a guy for 6 long years.
    We both loved each other a lot.
    Bt then due to family pressure, he had to get engaged to some other gal.
    We both were unhappy wid it but there was no way out of this prblm.
    I still love him & want him back but he says he cant come back now…so I shud forget him & move on in life.
    I know evn he’s unhappy wants to be wid me…
    How do I attract him back??

  5. Sorry i did some mistakes. … I thought the law of attraction was about imagine And focusing of what we truly want to happens

    • Visualization and focus are part of the Law of Attraction, but you still have to take specific action, be open to receiving, etc. If you go through this site, you’ll find all of the elements and instructions on how to use them. I highlighted several articles already in the comments above.

  6. The basic funda remains same… ASK, BELIEVE and RECEIVE.
    .. now that you have asked for some one specific, you need to believe that you will get the one you desire. If you have Believed it than ENJOY the feeling of RECEIVING your love. and Be happy that you have received it. .. you will surely get it as LOA says… Your wish is my command. You will get it. This is what DESIRE is about.

    This status of yours sends a signal to the universe that you have complete believe in this energy.

    If in case you get into DESPERATION than it indicates that you have DOUBTS in the system.. will i get him/her or not !! and if you have doubts that will you get her/him or not… .LOA says.. your wish is my command… so you create more of doubts.

    So just believe… you will get what ever you desire.

    Remember even we who all preaches LOA etc have not reached to the potential of understanding the power that a human really has. Everyone has their own understanding and they put it accordingly. You yourself has abundance of energy.. believe in yourself.. you go to others only when you have doubts… remove this doubt and enjoy what you have now and also the one that you desire.

  7. I have a friend who I was just more than friends with, and we really liked each other. We talked to each other everyday, even if it was to see how each other are.

    A girl that we both know has caused a rift between us. She was seperated from her husband for a year and a half, and she used to flirt with him. Now she is back with her husband she is still flirting with him and I think he has taken a liking to her more than me.

    He has not text me. I don’t want carry on harrasing him and texting when he is not texting/talking back. Please help me How can I get Law of Attraction to work for me and get him to call/text me and we start taking again. I don’t want to appear desperate by contacting him, because the last message I left was. “I will leave you alone, I don’t want to keep pestering you. He did not even respond to that. Please help

    • Rina – Go back to the basics of using the Law of Attraction to attract a specific person. Right now, you’re focusing on what he isn’t doing. You’re thinking about him not contacting you which is creating more of him not contacting you. Change your thoughts to change the situation. Be okay with him not contacting you, but be open to receiving a message from him. See it as happening. Forget about the world around you and create the reality you want. Allow the world to transform to match your thoughts. Those are key elements for using the Law of Attraction for love for a specific person.

  8. I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your book. It really gives me hope and calms me. Your words mean a lot to me. I finished reading it yesterday and want to go back through and do all the exercises. I truly believe this will work for me. Thanks

    • Thanks Frances! Your comment was a really pleasant surprise. I’m glad my book has helped you. Keep believing and you’ll succeed at using the Law of Attraction to attract the specific person you love. Let me know how it goes!

  9. Dear Elizabeth,

    am in a Love relation with a girl who is 8 years elder to me both of us from different culture and place, we love each other from what we are from heart and we were able to help and understand each other deeply, but now she is trying to come out wishing me that I will get someone of my age and she is also trying to find someone as her life partner believing that the society will not accept our relation, what can I do so that I can be with the girl I love and care for my life.

    I believe, I can get anything in my life then now

    • Hi Sharash,

      It’s all the same when using the Law of Attraction to attract a specific person. You can get anything in your life. With belief, all things are possible. Follow the steps in this article and they’ll help you to be with her.

  10. i have been trying to use law of attraction for some time now, specially when it comes to love because there is one specific person that i am in love. but somehow i am doing something wrong because things don’t manifest the way want… i don’t know what i’m doing wrong. i don’t know if it’s my energy that is negative, if it’s me that is not believing enough, if it’s the way i vizualise things… i even made a visualization board, i write and think about the things that i feel grateful for, every night i imagine myself with that person and that person feeling the same way for me as i do for him but it doesn’t seem to be working… this law of attraction process is very hard, how do i know what i’m doing wrong?

    • What you think, you create. If you think you’re doing something wrong, you can prevent the Law of Attraction from bringing you what you truly desire. If you think the Law of Attraction isn’t working to bring you the specific person you love, you will create signs of it not working.

      • ok, makes sense)) thanks for the advice)))

    • Hey

      All i want you to ask yourself is one thing….
      Are u actually feeling it ??

      Alot of people do apply the LOA, but its like they are forcing it.
      You should feel happy when imagining it,on a scientific level u thinking about something and expereincing it in real life gives same brain wave pattern…

      So you should be feeling as if it were with you…
      I will be a little straight forward and say you have a negative energy flowing when ur applying LOA…

      You should apply to a point where it feels its already there, and that feeling will be so intense that you will feel hes already yours, and thats what you want right…
      So the fact that you are having doubts and saying “This stuff doesnt work,the universe says – Your Wish is my Command”.

      How i often apply it,is while listening to a really pumpy song and i imagine it as if i really have the stuff…
      I can feel my self smile when i do so,and the feeling is priceless

  11. there is a guy in my class i like…..but we dont talk much….what should i do to make him smile at me and talk to me????….pls help,,,

  12. I was seeing this really great guy for a couple of months. Things were fantastic between us, but he just got out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago and apparently it was a messy end- she basically picked her career over him and moved to a different state. We decided that the best thing to do right now is for us to just be friends because he said that if he is going to be with me he wants to be there 100% and not have her pop up in his mind all the time. I totally understand this, and really did sense it… is it possible that I manifested this? When I first found this out about his ex it was always in the back of my mind… like he’s just not over her. I kept thinking that. Is it possible that I made this happen myself with my negative thoughts about it? And if so, can I use the LOA to turn it around, help him get over her faster and come back to me? Thank you in advance for your help.

    • Your thoughts have the power to create, so it is possible that you created this situation, but you can also turn it around. Let go of any worries or fears you have in regards to his ex. Be open to being in a relationship with him again and having him there 100%. Focus on being at one with being the relationship. Keep your vibration high by doing things you enjoy. The higher you can keep your vibration, the faster you should see results using the Law of Attraction for love to attract your specific person.

      • I can’t thank you enough for your response! It really brought my vibration up so high when I first read it… and it continues to. I have faith. Thank you again.

        • I’m so glad I could help PM!

  13. Hi,
    I have been loving this girl, like crazy and madly since the past 18 months. However, she doesnt feel anything for me yet. I even expressed my feelings for her. She denied and asked to be friends. But since i was committed to her, i continued to behave the same. However, she took my commitment for desperation. Worst part is, i realised lately that she is seeing my best friend, who knew everything about my feelings for this girl. She doesnt even realise that this guy is playing around with her. Now, i feel betrayed and as though my friend has taken advantage of the situation. Now, she hardly talks to me. Things are getting worse day by day. And she is supposed to be leaving for some other country for higher education soon, after which i wont be able to meet her often. Please please please tell me how do i win her. She is the most beautiful soul i’ve ever met. :)

    • Hi SKA, The Law of Attraction creates through your thoughts, words and beliefs. If you read back over what you wrote and take all the negative thoughts and change them to positives, and read these regularly, you’ll soon see a shift in your vibration that will help you be with her. You can use this technique to change things with any person, even your best friend. You don’t just have to use these Law of Attraction techniques on a specific person you love.

      For example, you wrote “Now, she hardly talks to me. Things are getting worse day by day.” Statements like that, create more experiences like that. Trying changing it to “Now, she regularly talks to me. Things are getting better day by day.” Something as simple as this can change what you’re creating and your world will change with it.

      • OMG Elizabeth, you just hit me bang on. I didnt even know i was thinking this negative all over. Thank you so much. But can you please help me with a list of to-do things or steps i must do to change my vibrations and feelings in my situation. As of now, i think of our past days when me and this girl were good friends and we used to laugh, talk, do everything. However, i am not able to “let go” which is vital for the Law of Attraction to work. I have read many articles and books but i am not able to customize it in my situation. Thanks in advance. Trust me you are doing a great job. :D

  14. Hi, I have been seeing a guy for 5 years. I am in love with him but we dont talk about feelings. He cheated on me a year 1 of our relationship for 6 months. He has his own place as I have kids from another relatioship. when i found out i was heart broken as I did not expect this but I took him back. I feel anxious when im not with him as I feel he is going to cheat . I am using loa to be positive and have gratitude with the good things we do. He does not want to commit as he is thinking babout his life and moving forward and im not part of his plans. I feel the fear and cant let go as when we r together its great, How else can i make this work

    • Hi Shona, If you want to successfully use the Law of Attraction for love for a specific person, you need to overcome your fear. Your thoughts and emotions create, so if you continue to be afraid, you will create the things that you fear – his cheating, his not wanting to commit, etc. Sometimes the easiest way to overcome fear is to think about the worst thing that would happen if things didn’t go the way you want them. Often, that worst fear isn’t all that bad, and it’s easy to then let the fear go. Other times, it might be necessary to use tapping or EFT to get rid of the fear.

  15. Hi Elizabeth.

    Why can I not purchase a copy of your ebook for kindle? Is this because I am in uk? I love the articles by the way. Thank you.

    Sara

    • Hi Sara,

      You can purchase a copy in the UK here: Manifesting Love

      Best,
      Elizabeth

      • Hi Elizabeth

        Thamk you for your email. I have managed to purchase it and put it inyo practice. Can I ask how effective it is.

        Many thanks
        Sara

        • Hi Sara,

          The Law of Attraction works every time. The effectiveness depends on you and the energy flow you put into manifesting your specific person. The more positively you flow energy in relation to your desire, and the more you sustain that energy, the faster you will see the results you want. Let your emotions help guide you along the way.

          You always decide what you will manifest with how you flow your energy, so make sure your energy is flowing to bring you what you want, not what you don’t want.

  16. Hi Elizabeth

    Thank goodness someone real! Thank you so much for your email and help. Yout book is great.

    Sara

  17. Hi

    I just wanted to share something about heart energy. I decided to give this a go
    I look at the picture of my desire and send him love and happiness, in addition I imagine a pink spiral all around him and me. I have done this for two days and I feel liberated I feel like everything I was worrying about has disappeared I feel a different person seriously. It is like I have let it go whilst still feeling the energy inyhands and feet. Am not sure if this is right or not if Elizabeth could clarify, but I feel great.

    Thank you

    Sara

    • Feeling liberated and as if worry has disappeared is wonderful! That’s a sign that you’ve tapped into heart energy. It naturally raises your vibration and releases resistance. You’ve made great progress in using the Law of Attraction for love to bring you your specific person!

  18. Hi Eli,
    With love for u from hishi,
    I want to buy a copy of \’Manifesting love\’. How can i have it?
    I am from india.

    • Hi Hishi,

      It’s available in India through amazon.in: Manifesting Love

  19. Elizabeth,
    I have bought Your books and been an avid fan of your blog! I have always had great success manifesting my desires until recently. My relationship of 4 years has ended- on his part– I have followed Your steps, used EFT, meditation, visualization, and have been working on my vibration. However, the Communication on his end has become increasingly negative (whereas he was not so together) and I am Aware of the desire- the RELATIONsHIP with him- has not manifested. I have been working on releasing resistance & detachment. Any tips or suggestions? Guidance would be appreciated.

    Thank you very much for the wonderful LOA resources, books, Advice, and presence! You are a beautiful ball of energy & light!

    • Thank so much chitownblu! You’re right that getting rid of resistance and attachment are key. Tapping works well for this. Also, remember to focus on what you want. You descussed that you’re aware your desire has not manifested. That’s living from a point of what is, not from what you want. You’re giving energy to creating more of what you don’t want by doing this. It could also be a factor in things not attracting your specific person as your vibration is closer to alignment with not being with him, than being with him.

  20. Elizabeth,

    Thank you for that piece of advice-should I remain in a constant state of “as if” with no attentiin on what is? Or should I focus in what I want, relax, and accept what is? Normally I focus in meditation on my intentions, relax, and allow my manifestations to occur—but, normally I am also not as Concerned about what I want to manifest. Should I be doing it differently?

    Love and Light!

    • You should remain in a state of “as if” when using the Law of Attraction for a specific person. When you give attention to what is, you give it power to create more of what is. You should relax and allow your manifestation to occur, as you have always done. It’s a great way to create what you want and, as you release resistance and become more detached, you’ll be able to reach that state more easily.

  21. Elizabeth-
    I feel as if im doing this all wrong–primarily because I dont see it manifesting. Ive poured over your book and site and I am at a loss as to my missteps….am I still stuck in resistance or not allowing?

    • “I don’t see it manifesting” is where you’re going wrong. You’re focusing on what you see around you. Stop looking at your reality like it is and start seeing it how you want to be. So long as you focus on your reality, your thoughts are filled with your current reality, and that’s what you are creating – more evidence of not being with him. Simply put, you are not at one with your desire. You have to change your thoughts. You need to be able to relax and let go. You need to make sure you aren’t obsessing over things and trying to control the situation. You need to focus on raising your vibrational energy and doing things that make you feel joyful. This article on resistance might help you get clearer so you can attract a specific person.

  22. i want to increase my height..what do i do for tha.plz help me..

  23. I know the LOA says when you want to manifest a specific person you have to be willing to lose them – you have to let go and be ok with not being with them in order to manifest the relationship you want. It also says that you should visualize the relationship you want with this person as if you already have it. How can one do both? How can I imagine being in a relationship with this person but let them go and be ok with not the being with them at the same time?

    • Hi SweetNYDiva – Great question! I cover it and more in Manifesting Love

  24. hey there,
    I need some advise from you. I would like to say thank you to you. Your article gave me hope. However, here is my story. I am in love with this guy that I know since 2011. We were so close that we were in ‘NO STRING ATTACHED’ kind of relationship and I felt in love with him. Till now I believe he is the one for me but it is really hard because he don’t see me in that way. He cares for me but he always says I will be happier with someone else. I know its him that I always wanted. He is the amazing guy that I really wish to spend my time with. I did visual n all but its been almost a year and there isnt any results yet. I just want him to realise and notice whats he is missing. Want him to give me a chance of being with him. I truely love him since the first I met him. Please revert back to me. Your assistance are much appreciated.

    • My situation is very similar to this… My guy was always telling that I would be better off with someone else and that he couldnt’ give me everything I deserved. What are your thoughts on this situation and how to change it Elizabeth?

  25. Elizabeth,

    I’ve read your book and followedour blog religiously-thank you so much for sharing your knowledge! I have been intending to manifest a specifuc relationship with my ex. I was even inspired to randomly buy him a plane ticket to see me-however on the am of his flight he contacted me and said he didn’t feel comfortable coming—I was so positive and sure to that he would come. I visulized him coming and our relationship reignitung—–what happened? What did I do wrong?

    • I’m glad you’re enjoying my book on using the law of attraction for a specific person, G! There are a couple of possibilities for why he didn’t come. 1) You had resistance. For example, you may have had some fears or doubts about what would happen once he got there. 2) You tried to control the outcome. When you bought the ticket, you decided how things were going to happen. Rather than letting the Universe determine how he would come to you, you decided how he would come.

  26. Elizabeth-
    Thank you! So what do you suggest I do instead? I never thought of it as trying to control it-I thought it was inspired action because it was so out of my norm. Right now I am heartbroken and my faith is very shaken….I believed I was sending the pos vibes and intentions out there-i really felt as if….now I feel lost and defeated.

    • You are greater than what is going on around you. Your relationship with yourself is your most important relationship. What’s happened happened. It’s in the past and you can’t change it. It sucks, but it’s happened. You can still change what happens in the future. Focus on getting to a place where you feel better. The happier and more joyful you feel, the more positive results you will see.

  27. So should I focus on centering myself again, aligning my chakras, & only after that then start acting as if and focusing my attentions again on the relationship I want to create with my ex?

    • You need to let go, release all resistance, and allow it to happen. Trust that the relationship already exists and allow yourself to receive it. Focus on feeling good.

  28. Elizabeth-
    I am in a situation where the man I just got back into my life (applying the LOA) is saying he just wants to be friends. I don’t understand why because when we are together things are great. When we first got back cool after a nasty seperation, he was reaching out to me constantly. Then I told him I wanted to spend more time with him and it seems after I said that, things went sour and he jumped from wanting to be around me to saying nothing is there anymore and he just wants to be friends. No warning or anything. This is the man I want to be around. I am very happy with him and cannot be in the same place I was with him when we were on bad terms, I refuse to go back to that space! I have been saying affirmations like “I am fun to be around;I Am someone that comes naturally to ____; I attract ____ naturally. etc” I guess i’m in a rush to spend time with him due to lost time when we weren’t talking. PLease help me! I have a strong desire to be with and around this man.

    • Hi Y – I explain how to attract the relationship you want in Manifesting Love. All the Best – Elizabeth

  29. Hi Elizabeth – thank you for the wonderful insight into attracting an ex. I got your book and have started doing everything you suggest. I could feel my vibrations rising and went to sleep with a wonderful open heart feeling. When I woke up the doubts of his intentions started filtering into my brain. I quickly tried to cover them up with ______ and ______ together forever and we are 1 type of mantra. I switch between what will be will be and positive thought. We lived together f or 7 years and he has moved out. I have left his cupboards ready for him to come back but am worried that I am not getting the detachment thing right. Will it come in time if I just carry on practising everything you have suggested? Thank you for your time and care. JG

    • Hi JG – I’m glad you’re enjoying my book on attracting a specific person! Detachment will come with time. Don’t worry so much about whether you’re doing things right. The Law of Attraction isn’t about perfection. Also, as I discuss in the book, focus on doing things that make you happy. It’ll be far more effective than trying to cover the doubts up with affirmations.

  30. Hi Elizabeth

    first of all I love your book and have read it twice. I used your method to attract someone back after he had gone and it worked. As it is a long distanced relationship we didn’t see each other often so things had fallen apart, and we broke up recently again. I want to attract him back using LOA again. This time is a bit difficult for me as it’s the second time manifesting the same person, and now I get a bit confused: as I have to ‘let go’, do I still have to visualise every day? In the “letting go” period, should I think about him, or just making myself happy? I am training myself to visualise better but I find sometimes the feeling of love is strong but sometimes not at all (probably because the long distanced has dragged us down and it is the second time manifesting the same person). Will making myself happy work in order to manifest in this situation? I do believe Universe is making it happen for me but I would like to know if I have to feel ‘in love’ when I think of him. Thank you.

    • Hi Polly,

      I’m glad my book on using the Law of Attraction for love of a specific person worked for you! You should follow the same steps you followed the first time. It’s okay if you think about him, but you should focus on making yourself happy. Instead of thinking of the feeling of “feeling in love”, think of the emotion of “feeling loved.” That’s what you’re ultimately looking for in your relationship.

  31. i am in love with a girl and we meet 2 or 3 times in a month . We didn’t talk , but i just love her like anything .i feel sometimes that i am ugly or not handsome enough , i try my best to attract her ,but don’t know what she feels. i use this law , but sometimes i feel low . please help

  32. I was in a ten year relationship with my child’s father, but he was a cheater. Eventually I started seeing other people years down the line, mind you our relationship was up and down. Long story short I became pregnant with another’s man baby, which was hurtful to the both of us. I still felt a sense of this happening wasn’t all my fault I feel like he played a role as well. I used to beg him to get our relationship back on track for about three years so finally I gave up because of continuous cheating. Well finally last year we I thought we were getting somewhere and boom came to find out the cheating never stopped, well I left again to begin a new relationship which didn’t work out either plus here’s another baby on the way. Finally the guy that I was with for ten years we started seeing each other again during my pregnancy, but the catch is he wants me to give up baby for adoption. We were broken up for seven months and really I feel my child isn’t his business. Nonetheless, for some odd reason I still love and want to be with him, but if he can’t accept the children, then I have to depart from him. How do me and the children attract him for a positive family oriented relationship?

    • Hi Onique – When you know why you’ve attracted the relationships you have attracted for the last 10+ years, you will know how to attract a positive family oriented relationship. Responsibility for one’s reality rests with oneself. Reality is an illustration of the choices one makes. These choices are a mixture of thoughts, beliefs, and feelings.

  33. Hi, I am from India. I wanted to know whether your book is available in physical copy. I donot have a kindle. So if i buy it from amazon, how will i be able to access it. I donot to know much abut kindles. Pls help. Thankyou.

    • Hi Riddhi – My books are only available in India as kindle books. You don’t need a kindle to read them. Amazon has free software you can download that allows you to read it on your computer and other devices. It’s super easy to read my book on using the Law of Attraction for love of a specific person!

  34. Thank you for responding, but how do I find out where and when I went wrong? The person that I have been on and off with for ten years, how do I get that back on track with him without the resentment and just have a good family life. I will only allow myself to go but so far because my children comes first and that is partly his problem it’s like he wants me to love him but hate my kids or just want them to go away. Do I apply the LOA or do I let go and focus on my blessings which are my children and many other things?

    • Hi Onique – You need to look over your thoughts, beliefs, emotions from the past to see why you created it in the past. You need to look at your current thoughts, beliefs and emotions to see why you are creating it now. There’s probably at least one thought/belief that has been repeated for 10 years and is still there. Changing your thoughts/beliefs allows your life to change.

      Using the Law of Attraction includes letting go and focusing on your blessings. They aren’t separate things. In order to succeed with the Law of Attraction, you have to work on your thoughts, beliefs and emotions AND let go and appreciate everything in your life.

  35. Hi Elizabeth, I would like to purchase your book ASAP but I am from Singapore. I can’t seem to use amazon to purchase your book what do I do? And I don’t have kindle so how? I want to use your book to know how to shift my focus because I keep focusing on the negative aspects. I hope to hear from u soon.

    Rekha

    • Hi Rekha – My books are only available in Singapore as kindle books. You don’t need a kindle to read them. Amazon has free software you can download that allows you to read it on your computer and other devices. It’s super easy to read all my books, whether you want to manifest money or use the Law of Attraction for a specific person.

  36. Hi,

    can you give quick tips on increasing belief?

    • Hi Riddhi – Belief and faith are necessary in order to assume the mindset of having it. Lack of belief often stems from resistance. Overcome the resistance and belief increases.

  37. I like a Girl. in My office..specifically .. we are stranger as she is a new Joinee.

    I was watching the video of law of attraction and I used the things that are explained,

    Recently we started talking with each other Just a hello.( but out side the office).at the Station or on the Road. while walking .

    But suddenly she started Ignoring me

    I am confused what should i do .

  38. Hi Elizabeth,

    My fiance and I had a very close knit relationship. As a matter of fact, we didn’t like being apart much at all. Unfortunately, life had us spend the last 8 months away from each other, because of work. It took its toll on the relationship which had already started to suffer because of financial reasons. And one day, almost out of the blue (well I could kind of feel it coming) , two days after telling me how he couldn’t wait to see me, and adored me, he sort of picked a fight, and broke up. From one day to the next, he completely closed the door on me. We went from constantly talking and missing each other, to nothing at all. I have been going through a very difficult time especially because I know that he didn’t break up because he didn’t love me, but he simply was not fulfilling his dreams fast enough because of our financial issues and felt that he had sacrified a lot for my ambition and put his on the backburner. We have had to speak a little because 5 years with someone, you can’t just go NC like that. Logistics had to be sorted out etc…. But he has become very cold all of a sudden, and I heard that it was the only way for him to get over it. He’s also moving to French Polynesia for 2 years. He says that moving forward and far away helps him deal with getting over us… In any case, our relationship was beautiful on the whole, but we simply had a break down in communication when it came to dealing with the pain of separation and money issues. I want him back of course and I will apply your advise from “Manifesting Love”. I know he is my soulmate as I am his. That much I know. However, he is moving so far away. I am going to be in the US and him in Tahiti. Do we even stand a chance? He could meet someone else, or just forget about me….I am lost. It’s only been 6 weeks and I am grieving. I don’t want someone better. I want him because we were something awesome. We just allowed fear to rule our lives….Need some TLC and encouragement :(… Thanks

    • Hi Angel – As I explained in my book, it’s all about you. Distance doesn’t matter with the Law of Attraction, even when using it for love and a specific person. You matter. Focus on creating the relationship you want and don’t worry about what you think are problems. Work on your thoughts, feelings, and vibration. Let go of how it’ll work. You have the ability to change your life and the Universe fully supports you.

  39. the law of attraction says think of the qualities you want in your partner, and theres a girl whom i like and the qualities also matched, i don’t know she love me or not but we just smile to each other whenever we meet each other , but i can feel a lot more than that. . Can you please help me how should i use this law in this case . i”m really confused .

  40. By applying this loa, can you manifest a couple of people at once? Meaning if you would like to have a more fulfilling dating/love life…to be able to choose the best one out of a couple of people for you… is that possible…and with the help of your book? Thanks! :-)

    • You don’t have to limit yourself to one person. You can pick the best person for you. You can use the techniques in my book on the law of attraction for love to help you do this by focusing on the type of person you want, as opposed to the specific person.

  41. Dear Elizabeth,

    Loved your kindle book! It’s given me hope and most importantly a sense of serenity which I haven’t had since my breakup I’m afraid. Moving on is never as easy as one thinks. People tell you to go out with friends, have fun etc…But how does one go out and “have fun” when all restaurants, bars, lounges, clubs or car radios play music and music is the last thing you even want to listen to when your heart is breaking in a million pieces. So that alone, prevents one from moving on peacefully. But your book…I don’t know, just gives one hope. It is easier (at least for me) to “let go” knowing that getting back with the love of my life is possible. Frankly, moving on with hope, regardless of the result, is so much healthier than without it. So for that alone thanks! Now my question :))… I haven’t see my ex for the past two months. He’s very very reluctant to speak to me, and the very limited email exchanges we have had since the breakup have been cold (on his end) at best, though he does reply everytime. I know he is hurt and dealing with it in his won male way I guess…We are thousands of miles away from each other and I want to manfiest spending christmas together. Is is advisable to manifest a certain date? Does that give it more power, or takes away from manifestation? I dont’ want to be obsessive about it, I want to be easy about it, but I must say that this Xmas was supposed to be special for us and I would love for that to be the case eventough it is around the corner. It just seems that manifesting an ex back is almost more difficult than manifesting a specific person you know but have never had a relationship with…Probably because of all the baggage and history. So anyway I just wanted to know if a specific date is ok? Thank you so much :))

    Lynn

    PS: My girls and I have Elizabeth “book club” and “posts clubs” now where we go through your books and articles and motivate each other. You are a good person Elizabeth. Helping others reach their goals and through difficult times is an amazing and honorable way to leave a mark in this world. Thanks!!!

    • Hi Lynn – I’m glad my book on using the Law of Attraction to attract a specific person into your life has been able to help you so much! I never imagined anyone would be having a book club or post clubs. :) That’s so cool!

      You can use a specific date if you want. I usually caution people not to use specific dates because it causes a problem for most people. They become fixated on the date and, as the date approaches, they begin to start blocking themselves from receiving what they want. They begin wondering if it’ll show up, wondering what it hasn’t shown up, etc. Their desire really could be on its way to manifesting by the date, but they don’t see it and end up creating a lot of fear and resistance that prevents the desire from manifesting.

      Also, a specific date can also delay a manifestation at times. People can focus on a date so intensely that they delay an invent from manifesting until the date. For example, picking Christmas could delay something from manifesting until Christmas, whereas if no date had been picked it may have manifested months earlier at Halloween.

      So you can use Christmas, but be aware of any fears or other forms of resistance that comes up if you do.

      • Sorry for the late reply and thank for your answer :) Actually what I was mostly aiming at was of course manifesting signs of my loved one before Christmas but having the goal of spending the holidays with him. I haven’t seen him in so long, he is quite far away and I have no idea how that will manifest itself but I am leaving it up to the universe to make it happen because Christmas used to have a very special meaning to us. Also during our book club and going over your book “how to manifest a specific person” one of the readers wanted to know if it was alright for her to chant (she is an assiduous buddhist) her buddhist mantra while using LOA. She wanted to know if it was compatible eventhough it is the same philosophy, she was afraid that perhaps practising two different methods might delay her manifestations in any way…I do not know if this is something you can help her with! Loving our little book club which is growing too!!!!

        Thanks

        Lynn

        • She can continue with her Buddhist mantras. It won’t interfere with anything.

  42. My ex and I broke up only because his parents believe that he does not need a relationship with a girl in this time in life. (He just started college). I am so in love with him. We started dating my Senior year, (I am in my second year in college) & ever since that time we started dating, I had this feeling inside my heart that just knew something special was about us. We have been broken up since this summer, and I am trying my best to do everything the LOA teachers express you should do. I have to admit, there are only a select number of days out of the months I’ve been practicing the LOA that I have been completly happy. I believe that I spend alot of focus on missing him, which of course brings more missing him. This week I have found a way to completely be happy, therefore I manifested a message from him. (We are not allowed to communicate with each other so I never know when I will get to talk to him). I asked him during that time if he would fight for us, fight for us to be together and by his actions and words, he pretty much wants us to wait, just like his parents want him to do. This is the whole reason why I am using the LOA to bring him back, so I don’t have to wait. I believe we can all be a happy family right now in this time! Basically my question to you is; Can going by the advice in this article help me with manifesting my one huge burning desire. Considering this involves three people now. Will being okay and happy without him create him back into my life WITH his parent’s approval?

  43. Hi again, I just recently posted a question, well I thought of something else that I didn’t mention in my last question. See I am sort of confused a little with Letting Go part/the “being okay without him” part. The LOA states to visualize and feel your desire, like you already have what you want. Basically focusing on you is the major part of attracting a specific person, and of course being okay with not receiving what you want, letting go or detachment. If visualizing myself with my man makes me happy, if thinking about my man & I’s new relationship makes me happy, then that is okay to focus on? I’m confused as to how I’m suppose to do both, visualize and also let go at the same time..

    • Hi Maria – The following article should help you better understand letting go to attract a specific person with the Law of Attraction for love: Are You Having Trouble Letting Go?

  44. Hi Elizabeth..AJ here again…I bought your book last night and read it in one setting! Good stuff! I will be reading it again today so I can start the work properly and really soak it all in. I have a question…my guy and I haven’t talked to each other for 2 weeks. But we are both still on the dating site we meet on few months ago. I know I am doing no contact, but with him still being able to see me and I being able to see him…does that kill the mystery of him missing me and will it hinder me from fully letting go? I am just trying to stay open and not block anyone that maybe better…even though I want the chance to see where things can go with him with the proper realignment. I just want to open the gate to draw him in and others, to go with what’s best for me. Thanks in advance!

    • It’s okay if he sees you. If seeing him makes it difficult for you, change it so you can’t see him. Do what’s best for you when attracting your specific person. The Law of Attraction for love has your best interest at heart.

  45. Hi Elizabeth,
    I believe in the LOA as it has worked for me my entire life in many situations that seemed absolute hopeless. But i have not used it for a specific person ever, but I am so excited to do that now.
    My question is, is there another format where I can get your book, as I do not have kindle? maybe print format or download? I will pay the same price of course. Thank you!
    Yana

    • Hi Yana – You don’t need a kindle. Amazon has free apps that allow you to read it on your computer, ipad and other devices. It’s super easy to read my book on attracting a specific person into your life using the Law of Attraction.

  46. Hi Elizabeth~ I have read your book a few times and have one thing that I am confused by. I was in a relationship with someone a few months back, but life circumstances got in the way a bit. These life circumstances have changed now and I would like him back in my life. I think that there is much potential here, but do not feel that I know him well enough to know that he is “the one”. Should I focus my energy on manifesting him specifically? Or should I not focus on manifesting him since I am not 100% sure he is the right guy and just focus on manifesting a life partner? And we have not talked in a while, so I assume I should NOT contact him and just focus on myself and on the manifestation? Please advise. Thanks!!!

    • Hi Missy – It doesn’t matter if you know he’s the one or not. If you just want to “give him a try” so to speak, you can do that too. If you’re not comfortable focusing on him specifically, then just focus on a general person. You’ll have better results if you do what feels right to you.

      • Thanks! I have not heard from him in a while. Should I contact him or just wait? I know you are supposed to take steps towards your goal and just not sure if me contacting him is a step or a sign that I don’t trust the process. Please advise.

        • Please reread Chapter 10 and follow the advice in it for attracting a specific person.

  47. as per neville goddard e should imagine a scene which reflects fullfiment of a ish..like a friend congratulating u on your promotion..can u give example for fullfilment of relationship with specific person..considering i live in india were we do not stay together pre-marriage.

    Thanks

    • Hi Riddhi – I’ve answered your question about Neville twice previously. Please refer to those answers.

  48. Hi Elizabeth, I’ve read your book (loved it!) and the “rules” for those of us who want to manifest an ex, seem a little more demanding and complex… What if your ex wants nothing to do with you, or appears not to want to? What if they are telling everyone they are moving on and happier without you and are going toward greener pastures and they are open to meeting someone new? Secondly, how does one visualize happiness when still hurting, and how does one visualize good things and “let it go” when the memory of the breakup is still recent and fresh. Any tips on how to switch off emotional pain and memories, and just concentrate on the good? I just feel that manifesting an ex back is a great deal more challenging (and yes it is him I really want) because of the history there which simply can’t be erased or forgotten….

    Jess

    • Hi Jess – I’m glad you loved my book on how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a specific person. My tips are:
      1) Stop focusing on the negative. Focus on what you want to create. Change how you view your ex. Allow yourself to see him as being nicer towards you. Focus on what you like about him.
      2) Remember that your thoughts create. If you believe manifesting him is very challenging, it will be for you. You need to overcome the negative feelings you have. Choose to be happy and do things that make you happy. It will get easier.

  49. Hi~

    Thanks so much for your help!

  50. hie Elizabeth
    trust m god has really been grateful to us by giving us u as our angel to come out of our problem…Elizabeth I m a relationship with a guy for past 4yrs I really love him but he doesn’t…..last yr he broke up with m as I was not in the position to take the breakup I did up many mistake I went down to his place ad created a mess in front of his parents then I started talking to his friend ad he came to know abt it….but after all this he is still talking to me he says he like my company but can’t give m commitment,he has also started ignoring m badly and I want his commitment I want him as my future husband but he is not seeing any kind of future with me I really love I want him back I want to be his miss perfect what should I do plss help m plss suggest something so that he give m commitment plss do reply

  51. hey elizabeth!!!im really honoured to come across this website!!!It gave me hope when I was devastated. My story is like this. I used to like someone.In fact I really do love him with all my heart. I did my part and let him know about my feelings to him. He said that he dont wanna hurt me and he says I deserve someone better without even giving it a try. But my instinct always say that he do love me, he just dont want to show it. Every night, I would pray to god to give me signs if i should continue to believe in this love or not. I did receive signals not once but many times. Its like each time I want to move on in life something unbelievable happens, like getting a text from him and so on. I really want to share my love and happiness with him. I have completely let go and I am staying dettached. But I just want to know what else could I do to make him realise my love for him is pure? Please give me a piece of your mind. I really desire a relationship with him. I am looking forward for your reply.

  52. hey Elizabeth pls also do tell me how to make or subconscious mind to work and manifest him in my life…….and steps to receive commitment….and what if he doesn’t love m anymore still can I achieve his commitment…..pls do reply I really need or help I really love him….

  53. Hi Elizabeth-
    I can’t believe how much help and advise you give people. You really make good use of your time. All I can say is God bless you! You deserve everything!

    At the same time, hoping you can please help me :) ?

    I really really like this girl who recently got married to someone else (deservedly to a great guy). But she and I get along really well. She is amazing. Obviously I cant go down the path to attract her using LOA. That’s just plain wrong. But I can’t help it. I like her.

    At the same time, I know 3 other girls that really like me. They are also amazing, all in different ways. But sadly I have no feelings for any of them. All 3 are so nice. Every guy likes them. My mates think I’m nuts. Even I think I need professional counceling given my conundrum :(

    I see your advise about loving myself/ being confident/ being fulfilled/ keeping happy. It all makes sense. I think I do do that. In fact I’d say I’m pretty confident. Sometimes overly. Sometimes I have an ego too. Have to be honest and admit it.

    Is there anything I can do using LOA to help me out? Any advise is appreciated to the utmost.

    • Why not use the Law of Attraction to attract another girl, someone you’re interested in? It’s okay that you don’t like the same girls your friends do. Manifest someone who strikes your fancy and makes you happy.

      • Thank you Elizabeth! Wish me luck!

  54. hii Elizabeth I really need ur help pls help me I m completely heartbroken shattered I don’t want to lose him….but I am losing him day day he is going away from me pls help me I really love him….I want him and his love back in my life pls help me to get him back pls suggest me what should I do I m really scared because he doesn’t love me anymore pls help me to get him back pls……u are my last hope pls help me

    • Ayesha – Don’t just read this article. Apply it. It’s clear from every comment you post that you are not applying any of the tips in this article. Change begins with you.

  55. thanks allot Elizabeth…..thanku thanku thanku……

  56. Dear Elizabeth, I have not yet read your book which I have just purchased but I have a couple of questions regarding a broken relationship:

    1) I have had a rather bad break-up with my boyfriend. All in all, he wants to move on completely and says that while he loved me and cared about me at the time of the break-up he simply wasn’t happy anymore and wants to move on to a new city, life etc… We have so financial dealings together but he says he no longer wants to worry about it because keeping in touch about cash isn’t healthy and we both need to move on. He has made it clear that there is no way he would get back into a relationship with me. And of course, after being told this I wrote him an angry email giving him a piece of my mind. While I love him more than life itself and visualize us being together again I must say that I find it very difficult to imagine us together, based on the way he seems to feel (or not feel…) about me. How do I let go of thinking of the outcome when all I can do is think about him and that perhaps he will meet someone else soon, or already has etc….

    2) I was told by some people who also follow the LOA methods that manifesting someone specific was not advisable because it was going against the wishes of that said person if that’s not what they wanted anymore. He’s made it very clear that it is not what he wants at all. Am I wrong for wanting the love of my life back and just be given a genuine chance to see if things could work again?

    3) Last but not least, could I start by manifesting nice emails from him first? Just something small? As he never contacts me first for anything anymore. Would that be alright to just manifest him little by little to build my confidence?

    I know you have so many mails to answer and I understand if you don’t have the time to answer mine but I am looking forward to reading your answer because I am confused but eager to move on being positive!

    Thank you so much

    Siobhan

  57. Hi,
    I want your suggestion ,
    My best friend ignores me suddenly behave like an stranger like she dont know me, 1 month ago she talk to me regularly hang with me all day we go for date watching movies , spending time with me their are no reason to ignore me she knows from very first day that i love her as s friend i want her back i dobg know ehy she ignoring me ……

  58. Mam i dont know , i do nothing wrong but she ignores me i lovd her as a friend as a love of my life , why she ignores me i want her back and want she also love me like i do………

  59. This is really working.thank you for advise.just learnt that it all begins with me.

  60. Thank you for offering good advice and sharing your beliefs.
    I believe that I have a special connection to someone and he shares that feeling, but broke up with me because he does not feel he is’ in love’ with me, though I interpreted his signs as such. I believe I manifested him into my life and we get along fabulously.
    If he doesn’t want to manifest me to stay in his life through his beliefs, how can my ‘law of attraction’ manifest, if he isn’t a willing participant and does not feel the same way. Wouldn’t his ‘law of attraction’ beliefs clash with mine?
    Who’s to say I have more manifestation power to override what he wants or feels? Hope this makes sense.

    • This has a lot to do with quantum physics and is far too complex to give a detailed answer here. Basically, you create your reality. Everything in your reality now is based on what you have created in the past. Your future is based on what you are creating now.

      Your future can be anything that you choose it to be. There is a limitless number of possibilities for you to step into, just as there is a limitless versions of you and a limitless versions of everyone else in your life. Everyone takes a role according to the reality you create. If you create a reality with him in it, he will be in it. If you create a reality without him, he won’t be in it. It’s all about you and what you create.

      Manifesting is about lining up with the reality you want. A future exists where you are with him and a future exists where you are not with him. You simply have to come into alignment with the reality that you want. All the power lines in you.

      • Thank you for your answer and this makes sense.
        I understand that if my reality is to have him in my life, then he will be.
        If his reality, is to not have me in his life, then I won’t be.

        So which reality ‘wins’ in the end?

        • You will experience the reality you are most in vibrational reality with. It’s about you, not him. You create your reality. He doesn’t create yours. If you’re in alignment with him being in your life, he will be.

  61. Hi Elizabeth…I really appreciate you taking the time to answer all of our questions…no matter how big, small or repetitive…thank you for continuing to answer and being patient…we all are just trying to get it right…trying to find our happy place and manifest within it. I’ve been working on my energy everyday and learning to let go..even though he continues to pop up in my mind everyday, a couple of times a day. I’m not at all mad or hurt…just missing him…I smile and laugh when I think of him…and try my best to not let the missing him get in the way of the universe delivering my desires to me. But I would like to know if it is possible to manifest him or someone even better for Thanksgiving? I would love to have a great guy to accompany me for the holiday festivities and more! And how do I manifest faster? Thanks again in advance!

    • You can try for Thanksgiving, but be careful with using specific dates. Many people get so focused on the date that they allow fears and doubt to creep up. As the date gets closer, they start wondering why it hasn’t happened yet and worry that it isn’t working. They end up not manifesting it not working when if they had stayed the course, they may have been someone the very next day.

  62. Hi dear Elizabeth .I know it may sound weird but is it possible to attract so who is married now? I know how it sounds but he’s married unhappily and is going on just cos of traditions,if u know what I mean?

    • Hi dear Elizabeth,

      Even I have the same question as Mary. And I do believe that it is possible. Please advise.

      love ,
      Anjali

      • Anjali – Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person in her book, Manifesting Love.

  63. Hi Elizabeth,

    I like a Girl in my office…. we are friends now. But i want to take our friendship to another level..some times she smiles at me some times she ignores me..i am confused can you please advise me. when ever she ignores me i am always Negative thoughts abt our friendship.

    PLease Do Reply…

    Regards

    Sid

    • If you want to take things to another level, why not try asking her out?

  64. Hi Elizabeth, Ive just read the book – ive always visualised and practised gratitude and its worked well for me. However when it comes to love, not so much. I read the section on vibrational matches. When i think of him i feel fearful & anxious. I know this means im blocking him but its the way i feel. Ive been in love with him for nearly 2 years, but alas he now has someone else.

    • Hi Sally – You’re correct that your feelings of fear and anxiety are signs of resistance. You need to resolve what’s causing your resistance for the fear and anxiety to go away. The following article may help: 4 Great Ways to Overcome Resistance in Law of Attraction

  65. Hello Elizabeth,
    I tend to extremely over think things, so I’m a little confused. Let me explain:
    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and we live together. In the beginning of October things were bad, he forced me to move out thinking it would help things, which surprisingly it did. I thought this would only make things worse, I was constantly worried he would cheat on me, go behind my back, and betray me; like he has before. We were still together, just not living together. A week later after we spent some time talking and working through things, I moved back in. Ever since then over the few weeks things have been great, he’s treated me amazing, however I still have a fear of, “what if he is treating me like this but is potentially going behind my back?” A few days ago he had a missed call from a number with a area code of where his ex lives, I do not know if it was her, a telemarketer, or just a random wrong number. But it is has worried me over the past few days. I also worry when I’m at work and he’s at home, what he’s doing. I try so hard to imagine us happy and trying to believe in everything he says to me is true and sincere. I just have major trust issues. I care for him an immense amount and would do anything for him, I love him very much. However, I do believe that I would be okay with out him.. eventually in time. I do not want this to happen, but you said you have to imagine yourself being able to let go of that person. He is for sure the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I never want to lose him. What I am confused about is, if I am using the Law of Attraction to attract him more into my life, what if he is using the Law of Attraction to attract a different person in his life, such as his ex, instead of me. Which situation with manifest? He is not the type of person to ever think about these, he doesn’t even know what the Law of Attraction is, but I believe he could subconsciously be doing this and not even knowing it. Again, I think way too in depth about things and sometimes just make it worse for myself.

    To add, he has been saying he has “something in the works” and I asked what he meant and he said it was a surprise but that is has to do with he and I and our love and that he knows it’s going to make me extremely happy. He never does anything for me, or buys me things so I’m having a hard time trying to imagine what this could be. I’m deep down hoping that maybe he could be talking about proposing to me. He said I should expect this “surprise” in one to two weeks. Is it possible for me to use the Law of Attraction to make this actually be a proposal?
    He even said he didn’t tell out roommate, who is his best friend and tells everything to, because he knows he would tell his girlfriend who would tell me. “That’s how big this is,” was his words.

    Elizabeth, please help me understand everything that is happening and how I can think less and be stressed and manifest this relationship with him, keep him in my life forever, and attract a marriage.

    Thank you,
    Liv

  66. Hello, I am hoping you can help me with this…. I’ve read that being excited to manifest your old love, or just a new relationship in general is okay. I feel so excited when the Universe shows me my signs of my desire. I’ve recently realized that whenever I see those signs, it makes me anxious to receive. Is there anything I can do to keep myself from feeling anxious to receive when I see these signs?

  67. Hi. I was in a relationship with a guy for awhile but we split in 2008. Since then he has had a girlfriend and I think they still live together. I have dated since then but have been unsuccessful in finding that combustible chemistry that I had with him, with someone else. We would always reconnect on and off throughout the entire time we were broken up until last year. We both sort of faded and haven’t been in touch for about a year and 6 months now. We may not be meant to be together but I miss the initial friendship we had prior to us being in a relationship; we were so close and complimented each other well. I have let go, forgiven and accepted what was and what is but recently felt intense energy wanting him back in my life and it’s never been this intense since the first couple of months following the breakup. I have been single ever since, but have gone on plenty dates as I am never lacking suitors. I am no longer in love with him but I do still love him and miss his presence, chemistry, companionship and energy. I have accomplished many goals that I’ve set but there’s this void that has yet to be satisfied, which I’m afraid can only be fulfilled by him or someone/something similar. I’ve read that letting go will attract, which I have done but he hasn’t completely come back. I never pressure, I play it cool and may even come off passive. When we reconnect, I hide my hurt and heart and don’t mention getting back together because I feel we’re not at the point yet. I was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend as well. I’ve given it space, time and room to breath as I trust in divine intervention as well as universal laws. I’ve thought happy and positive thoughts, I’ve even tried to create visuals in my mind but nada. What could be going on? I miss him a lot.

  68. Hello Elizabeth,
    I recently purchased your book and started applying the loa to my relationship. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now but we’ve known each other since we were kids…In the beginning he was really into me and passionate, he always found some way to touch me..but a couple of weeks ago all of his affection has stopped and I found out that he still talks to his ex but for court related issues that will be going on until January. Now he seems almost scared to get close to me as if she has threatened him, but I see him everyday and we still kiss goodnight sometimes. He told me hes not completely over her but he never wants to be with her again and that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone for a very long time, but he also says how attracted he is to me and how much he cares for me.
    Ive been thinking of ignoring him and maybe that will help him miss me but I not sure..how can I apply your book to this situation because I already have him just not the way I want.

  69. Hi Elizabeth,
    Am new here and I start knownig about the law of attraction 3 month ago.. actually my case is a little complicated.. lets get straight the topic.. since my childhood i was a good looking guy that girls are atrected to .. in my adolescence i felt in love for the first time when i was 17.. but the frustrating thing is after 17 years .. my face has changed .. and i mean it really! am not handsome anymore .. even i dont wanna say am ugly but people make fun of me .. like am disfigured :( .. since that moment I hate myself so much its like its not me .. this not my real face .. mutation!! and i hate myself more coz i felt so unworthy to be loved .. am now 25 year old and still struggle to live a normal life .. I cant live happy if am not in a love relation coz that first relation makes me live in wonderland.. I knew a girl 4 month ago via facebook .. i can see we both attracted to each others . and I think I love her.. she want to meet me in real life but am so scared so scared to get rejected coz i know am ugly somehow .. so please help elizabeth tell me what should I do .. she didnt said she love me but I know that she miss me all the time and think about me .. am really tired of being so scared to be rejected
    Thank You
    Anouar

  70. LOA says when creating our reality we shouldn’t be incoherent about what we desire and asked for. My question is, if I’m trying to manifest my ex, isn’t it incoherent to date and make plans with someone else?

    I’ve read a lot from people successfully getting their exe’s back by letting go and going for a new relationship, but I’m not sure if I’m blocking my ex when I’m excited and happy about a new person.

  71. Hi Dear Elizabeth,
    I love this guy for more than 1 year. We had a short relationship, I really loved him but he didn’t pay much attention to my feelings. I started to doubt if he really loves me or just want to sleep with me. He didn’t call me or even text me regularly except the times he need to have se’x ! I couldn’t believe that he was a jerk! He sometimes treated me well and appreciated my kindness to him. Now after 1 year I can’t forget him or be with other guys. I think he didn’t love me and this thought make me hate him ! What should I do? I can’t focus on my own life.

    • Adrina – Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person and create the relationship of your dreams in her book, Manifesting Love.

  72. Hi Elizabeth,
    Nice article, but i have some questions. I like one girl, she is so pretty, she is in my office but in other building. I only see her when office is closed and employees go there home. She was some days ago in my building working but her department shift to other building and she is here that time i just see her and she know that. But i dont have gutts to talk with her. Some time she also see me. But after she left my building the things changed. I also so shy thats why some time she is front of me but i not see her. and I think this thing i done worst. and one more thing i send her friend request thats she not accept from 3 weeks yet but she not decline also (becaouse there is “add as friend” is not shown “request send” msg still there) now she not see me or many times we not saw to each other but like her so much please help me.
    And sorry for my lines structures. My english line construction is not good.
    Thank You,
    Kamal

    • Kamal – Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction for love and to attract a specific person in her book, Manifesting Love.

  73. Hi Elizabeth, I would love to read your book but I don’t have a kindle. Is there anywhere in Australia that I can purchase the book as a hard copy? Or download it online to read from my computer? Thank you so much.

    Regards,

    Hazel

    • Hi Hazel – You don’t need a Kindle. Amazon offers free reading apps to read it on computers, tablets, smartphones and more. You can find the free apps here. It is available in Australia here.

  74. Hi, Elizabeth!!!

    My name is Tracy. I’ve just recently started getting a lot more serious about using the Law of Attraction in my life. My dear friend, Alexis, is in love with a wonderful man name Blake and I am madly in love with an amazing man name Brody! We’re all mutual friends. Both Alexis and I would often get together and talk about our guys and how we feel about them. We both would mention how we have strong vibes for both our guys and how it feels as if we are being drawn towards them. She is as serious about Blake as I am about Brody, and so one day I was reading about the Law of Attraction. A friend introduced me to it a long time ago. I did put it off, but now… things are getting serious in my life and figured it’s time to start using the Law of Attraction, really start using it! And so I was wondering if it was possible, or even right, to use the Law of Attraction to draw these special men to us. And, like so, I started finding all of these articles about it! And I came across YOUR article! I’ve just shared it with my friend, Alexis, this morning! ‘m very excited about this! She’s gonna be so thrilled! So, do you have any additional advice for me and Alexis that would be helpful in our using the Law of Attraction at this time? Any advice you have would be great, Elizabeth!!!

    And thank you so much!!!!

    Tracy

    • Tracy – Elizabeth goes into detail on how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person in her book, Manifesting Love.

      • Coolness! Thanks Pam! :)

  75. Well lately I have been looking at this LOA and I would love to try it. I have been very unfortunate with love and relationships for about a year now. It seem like everytime I get close with a guy, he leaves with no explanation. I get really attached and it hurts soo bad when they leave. And with this last guy I was with I have been having negative thoughts saying things like, “oh he wont stay”, and “What if he leaves like the rest?” Well it happened , but here’s the thing, I don’t know if it could be because of the negative thoughts or his ex. Let me explain what I mean. Well me and this guy that I would never thought I would have feelings for start becoming really good friends. He was attracted to me, but couldn’t date me because he was already in a relationship with his girlfriend of almost 2 years. A month later she have been talking to him about breaking up and finally she did. Then me and him start getting close. Everything was going great until his ex wanted to come back. Well he let her and now I’m left in the cold once again. I strongly believe the only reason she’s back in his life is because she found out about me and got upset. I don’t think she love him like she say she do, but I don’t know. I do see us being a great couple, but how can I get the LOA to work for me and him and she’s in the way?

  76. Oh my God, you’re so right! I did exactly what you did and it caused me all sorts of problems. His ex doesn’t matter at all. You gotta check out Elizabeth’s book! It’s the bomb for changing how you think and using LOA for a specific person.

  77. Dear Elisabeth

    Me and my boyfriend are in love since 6 years. I went abroad to study. His parents marry him to a girl because of he difference in religion. After 2 months he married he contact me. I want to get him back again as we cannot live without each other. I am far and will be back in some months. I want to use the Law of Attraction to get him back. How to manifest to get him.

  78. Dear Elisabeth

    Me and my boyfriend love each other since 6 years. Now I am abroad for my study and his parents marry him with a girl that they choose because of religion. After 2months of he married he contact me. i am so happy. i want him back. I use the Law of Attrantion to get him back. How to manifest it.

    • Juli – Elizabeth explains in detail how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person in her book, Manifesting Love.

  79. Dear Elisabeth…I am in relationship with my boyfriend almost 8 years..We were very in love. But during these years he did to me something I couldn´t forgive him for many years..I were very much angry with him all these years..but I was also still in love. I think I was so angry that I was very often pushing him out of me without even noticing that. Yesterday he told me he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore. Because in last two years he was feeling very alone, told me I was not listeting. He was right. I have forgiven him already. But I did not notice I was behaving this way all these years. I am very sorry for that. Because I forgived and I love him all the time. I want him back. But he is not sure any more he loves me. He likes me very much. But he told me I destroyed the love in him. He does not leave in this moment. He told me he needs time. I told him I want to repair everything, I want to change. I do not want anymore to behave in this way. I did a big mistake and I am sure I can change. How to make him change his mind? How to let him find the love again? I know he likes me a lot..and that I am important for him. But it seems it is not enough anymore. Thanks

  80. It is still me Elisabeth. The one thing i did not tell you is that during the lonelyness of my boyfriend he met a collegue from his work and she is feeling lonely too, she is married and has two children, but she is unhappy.. So they started to meet each other and talk. He told me there is nothing..no feelings..he is only happy she saved him when he was felling very bad (because of me). It is ok for me. But I know it is not the same for her. She is trying something. And do not want to loose him. I am happy if he has a friend that helps him when I was not there. But it is not a nice situation. How to think??? What to do? I know I do not have to think about “them” and that he leaves me for her even if he tells me know he is not interested..but I have to do something if there is still a possibility he loves me a little. Please help..thank you.

    • Susan – Elizabeth explains right below where you post that she can no longer respond to individual comments. You might want to check out her book, Manifesting Love. It explains in detail how to create the love relationship you want with a specific person, using the law of attraction. I think it could help you in your situation.

  81. I’m trying to buy the book however amazon states – This title is not currently available for purchase

    is there anything i can do?????

    • I’m not sure why you received that message. I checked Amazon and it is available for purchase. It may have been a temporary issue with their recent site updates. You might want to try again.

  82. How does the law of attraction work if the person you love has moved to a different state? From the beginning he stated he wanted to only be friends because he was not ready for a long term relationship but we did all the things that people do in relationships and agreed to be monogamous. He has left for another state to take care of issues with family/children and says he doesn’t know when he’ll return. We don’t talk/text as before. I really developed strong feelings for him as we spent a lot of time together and I felt they were reciprocated to a point. Not sure what to do at this point. He has all the qualities I want in a friend/husband. I would love for us to be back together but as more than only friends. Please help

    • Tra – Elizabeth explains right below where you post that she can no longer respond to individual comments. You might want to check out her book, Manifesting Love. It explains in detail how to create the love relationship you want with a specific person, using the law of attraction.

  83. I completely believe that you attract whatever and whoever you want.
    2 years ago I saw a girl in a nightclub website…she was the dj. I was in another country in that time and was coming to America, to the same city as she was.
    I thought about her, but not that much…but I had the feeling that in some point I was going to meet her.
    I came to USA, I met another girl, and “forgot” about this dream girl, but on weekends I tried to go to see her djing but something always happened.
    I have troubles with my girlfriend and one night I decided to go out to dance, alone. And guess what: the dream girl was there djing. I met her one year later.
    I left the night club with the feeling that We were already in a relationship…and I knew she had a boyfriend.
    from that time (August) until December I was living like we were in a relationship…and I didn,t see her djing anymore. In october I started messaging her on Facebook, asking about musics etc, because I had the feeling I should make a move. In the end of the month she broke up with her boyfriend and I was like “OMG” it is working.
    She started invite me to go to places where she was djing…and I did.
    January we got together..we’re best friends too…everything was going PERFECT…then my beliefs mess up with me… I started with feelings like: ” Oh no, it’s too good to be real, she for real doesn.t like me, I’m not good enough, she’ll find someone better, etc” . I started to be so jealous…and everytime I was saying that I needed a break, space from her..but I didn’t know how… because I needed to change my vibes and get self confident again… So, the Universe gave me this break, when We had a discussion a month ago. She asked me a break.
    I know I should change my vibes when all this bad thoughts started months ago…
    and know I have to start all over again…
    It’s all about feelings and beliefs.

  84. Hello, Elizabeth and everybody else :)

    I really need your help.. The thing is I like one guy very much. Since the first time I saw him, I felt the connection I have never felt with someone else before.. This time I am sure he is the One. I see myself marrying him one day… even when I feel bad, I still have that picture in my head of me saying “I do” to him… He has all the qualities that I wanted in a guy.. He even is born on the same day as me.. Since I saw him looking at me, I felt he liked me… however, I’m a type of person who doubts a lot. like really a lot… Long story short, on December last year I added him on facebook and he messaged me immediately. It really showed that he was interested in me. An we had so much in common that I couldn’t even believe this can be true… so we were chatting on and off. we both are shy… and i remember that I would message him of desperation sometimes.. I messaged him in February.. we had a nice conversation, but for some reason I started doubting and crying… I was broke… then I found (again) the LOA, your articles were very inspiring..I was feeling quite good and would sometimes get on a level that I didn’t need him to make me happy. Then a miracle happened, after a month of our conversation, he asked me out. It was an amazing date. He was so happy then.. he even blushed a few times.. then, after a week he asked me out again. and again it was a wonderful time that we shared.. and after the date he said this: “there will be infinity of dates like this”, and the look in his eyes and.. and his smile said even more – he was very very happy when with me. He was glowing. However… i for some reason shied away and didn’t even message him after a date.. the next day I saw him and he was very said when I said hello to him. I could see the sadness in his eyes… then I felt guilty… i started doubting… and things got worse… I tried to fix the situation after more than a month… I asked him out myself. but he couldn’t go.. and then it was a breakdown for me… it was an awful period… I was very negative.. and i saw hi groupmate being with him at university all the time… it took me a couple of months to feel better… at the end of June I was feeling good. I was relaxed… And then I got a message from him. It was the nicest compliment I had ever received..I will not go into details, but I was on and off with my emotions… I thought that in September (because we study at the same university, except for he is a year older than me) things will be very good.. but they are not… we only say hello to each other… and most of the time ignore each other like we don’t exist… his groupmate is still being flirty with him and I don’t know what to do. It’s his last year in university.. I don’t have much time and this puts even more stress on me.. One of my friends keeps telling me that if he cared he would have done something by now… it hurts, because… because I had a chance to have him in my life but because of my fears and doubts I messed it all up.. Another friend says that I have to do something.. that I have to message him… but I don’t feel good now.. I’m not inspired and I don’t know if I ever will.. I simply love this person with my whole heart, and he is amazing… and I’m scared to lose him.. Any advice how I could calm down and go in the direction of my desire? because I feel like i’m going the opposite way. Maybe someone is in a similiar situation as me?
    Thank you in advance:)

    • Arthemia – Have you read Elizabeth’s book Manifesting Love? It explains in detail how to create the love relationship you want with a specific person, using the law of attraction. It doesn’t matter what’s happened in the past. You can have the relationship you want.

  85. Hi ,

    I am Sheela from India .. I am crazily in love with a guy who is my ex’s best friend .. We both are good friends .. We hang out at least Once a month .. Last month we got a bit physical wherein we were hugging each other and holding each other’s hands .. But since that incident, he has been ignoring me completely .. I really want him back in my life .. I also have a feeling that he is going around with another girl … Just for time pass and not a serious relationship .. Please help Me .. Can I get him back in my life ??

  86. Can you attract a man that kept saying to you he wasn’t attracted to you? Even tho he would come over and ask if he could come over every weekend and asked why i didn’t call him. His mother was very over involved and was texting him when we were together, i believe she was in his ear all the time about me because i was older. nothing ever happened, no kissing or anything i never did anything either because he kept saying he had no feelings for. He would text me really early every morning telling me how awesome i was but just kept saying he had no feelings for me and wasn’t attracted to me. Why would someone text you the first minute they get up and send 50 text a day and be vulnerable to you if they had no feelings? He sent love songs then ask if mine were about him. again all this time saying he had feelings for me. My primary thoughts everyday were “he won’t think I’m good enough for him’ ‘I’m not pretty enough’ etc etc. I can see where i went wrong with the thoughts and feelings i kept giving out. My question is if someone says that are not attracted to you but they do things that would indicate otherwise, can you attract them into your life with the LOA? Thanks. Marie.

    • Marie – Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person regardless of your circumstances or situation in her book, Manifesting Love.

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